Sir, my self and my husband got married on may month. Due to lot of problems in home we both don't have proper /good understanding. We don't have any problem between us. But due to other members in family we both got lot of miss understanding. Now I m unable to get back my husband original character. I m much frustrated. I could not get back my husband's pure love which he showed me before marriage. I m a research scholar. Due to these problems I'm unable to concentrate in my studies and family life. How to come out of this. Kindly help me.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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This is a very delicate and important phase of your married life: the first two years is when you build your relationship and learn to make all the adjustments for the rest of your lives. According to how these two years go, the rest of your life will be the same. So you are already starting on the wrong foot! If it is the others in the family then speak to your husband and move out and live on your own, if you can afford it. This is the best solution because if you lived in his house you are an in-law and cannot say anything. Whereas, if you lived in your own home, you can live in peace and live to love each other. Show him this response and see what he has to say. If he is not willing to listen then do meet with a marriage counselor and get talking about solutions, and that person can also help you to learn to live in the same house if you went for what is called ?continuing counseling?. 

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