I think am obsessed with thinking about a person since 7-8 months. I was in relationship with him but it never worked out well, I have just met him just once, atleast 1.5yr earlier to the beginning of our relationship, and wen we came into a relationship we couldnt meet, I just spoke to each other through phone. I dont understand how that person effects me so much whom I have never met. I have been continuously thinking about him, all the day and night, even I dream of him in a regular interval. I think so much about him that sometimes I feel I can feel him or see him. I have tried not thinking about him, diverted my mind, but even in mid of 6-7 friends I cannot control my mind thinking about him. I am completely tensed.
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It seems that you are very suggestible. You are obsessing about this person by merely being in contact with him over the phone! That means that he must have known what to say to you and make you feel happy and good about yourself: Which also means that you are very vulnerable to other people giving you attention. If you have not been getting enough attention in your own life then you will become very easily enamored by anyone giving you positive attention. You must be careful of this because if a boy wants to get you to do anything for them, then all they need to do is to give you lots f love and you will immediately oblige. You must learn to love yourself and be fully satiated so that you will be self-sufficient in yourself. Otherwise other people can take advantage of you, especially in love. I think that you should move on rather quickly and for that you need to take some measures. You must deal with all your feelings you had around him and clear it out of your system. Remove all the gifts, reminders of him, and give it away or destroy them, if there are any. Meet a lot with other friends whom you might have neglected all these months and renew the contacts all over again. Please do not bad mouth him to anyone and just say that we broke up for some good reasons and you are okay with that. Start an exercise regimen and get on with your studies, and career building, with a renewed vigor. Do not get into another relationship as yet, and if the feelings for this boy continues to haunt you, please meet with a counselor and share them with that person. In time this will all be history and you will be happy you moved on.
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