I am afraid of falling in love, yet i tend to get attached. I have nothing to live for. How should i go on?
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Your fear of falling in love may be restricting you to the attachment level alone. Good relationships experience bonding. Why would you think that you have nothing to live for. If that is the case, who will want to live with someone who has no good reason to live life? Failure is part and parcel of life. If you don?t learn from it, that could be your problem. All success is attained from and due to failure. Yes, relationship with the opposite sex is difficult and involves a lot of nuances. The very thing that attracts can become the obstacles or contentious points and become the playground for numerous games. So I recommend that you work on yourself and find reasons to live. If you do that, this will add tons to your desirability, and the durability for the staying power you can exercise on girls. Your self-confidence and self-image do need some investment for others to like you and to want you. Attend a personality development course and some personal grooming classes too. And remember that ultimately the one great feature that will stand out and sustain relations is, character. If you have oodles of it, you will never have a problem either in the rejection or acceptance by a female companion. It is worth its weight in gold.
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