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Hi dear doctor or whom ever reading this. I’m a boy aged 21 living in Navi Mumbai currently pursuing professional course here. I really want your help asap. My problem is that I have a high libido. I know it’s unusual and I’m not saying this to look ‘cool’. My sex drive is intense and I’m tired and disgusted of it. With that I can’t focus on any other things. I can’t even hangout with people with women in it. I try hard to not to feel any sexual feelings for them. I don’t act upon the feelings because I’m not a pervert or a rapist. I don’t masturbate because I’m repulsive of it. I don’t like that act and I’m psychologically opposed to it. It’s against my values. Not religious but personal. It does’t even give me pleasure anymore. The last time I did was almost a month ago. I also don’t want to be with women. Because I don’t want to have sex with other people. I’m really very sorry if I’m sounding rude. But also I hate most of the women. I'm a sapiosexual almost and in that aspect I don’t like women. There are many aspects to it. But as this text is already big I don’t want to go into the details. I humbly request you to kindly look into this problem of mine and suggest me an aphrodisiac which can have temporary or permanent effect or other safe and viable options. I honestly don’t want to get a counseling and be told to just get a girlfriend. I also don’t want to be fooled into a therapy which just want me to have sex without I’m entirely aware about it. I searched in Internet and got a big list of medicines, drugs and therapy but I want to consult a honest humble and trustworthy real doctor to try anyone of them. I again request you humbly to provide me with solutions. Regards.

1 Doctor Answered
People have varied sex drives and it's a natural phenomenon. But if those thoughts or the fear that you will act upon them are causing you so much distress, you should seek help from a clinical psychologist. They would neither tell you to get a gf or have sex. They would help you in normalising the thoughts and not letting them over power you.
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