Hi, I have a girlfriend from last one and half year and she is all mine. We love each other honestly. She had physical relationship with me to some extent. But for sex, she is not ready. She wants to be virgin, says she will do it after 3-4 years. After I could not get chance to have sex. She is always ready to have physical relationship with me but don't have chances. I am totally frustrated and depressed because I am controlling this feeling of sex from last one year. I am losing my weight too. I am not so much healthy now. But I think I am in the need of sex and If I couldn't get, my condition would be very worst. What should I do?
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Hello , There is a lot of difference between male and female sexual organs. The primary male sex organ does not show much changes after sex but in case of the female sex organs like vagina and breasts, both transform significantly after sex. The breasts begin to blossom and increase in size whereas in case of the vagina the hymen gets torn, the size of the vagina increases and the shape changes from elliptical to oval. This makes it easy to identify a girl who has had sex and is not a virgin. In our country, a lot of proposals for marriage are rejected on grounds of virginity. Your girlfriend might be having such insecurity issues and therefore she is not ready for sex now. You have to respect her decision if you are willing to spend your whole life with her. Maybe with time, if you are able to gain her trust through love and honesty she might change her mind. But if having sex is more important to you than this relationship and you are not willing to wait then you might have to terminate this relationship and find a new partner.
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Try to relax yourself -- Exercise. Exercise is one of the most important things you can do to combat stress. Take a few minutes to breathe in and out in slow, deep breaths. Reduce Your Caffeine Intake. Write It Down. Chew Gum. Spend Time With Friends and Family. Laugh. Massage. Eat a healthy diet. Pursue one hobbyWalk in nature Meditation. Yoga. For more details you can consult me.
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