My elder friend who is like my elder brother is having frequency of drinks (Alcohol) over weekend.(Fri- Sunday). As per him sex is more enjoyable after this. But it has been observed that even after 10 years of marriage the sexual life of couple is not that great. Which is leading to huge disturbance in married life is what I make out from his few confession. He tried to avoid drinks but due to his social status or Additication he some how not successful in that. He is little overweight as well. And need urgent help on below question. 1. Should he consult Sexologist but he is little awkward in that regards as that may impact is self esteem. 2. His wife also accompany for drinks so is that dangerous? 3. Suggest Medicine. 4. Does kegel exercise help him? 5.Also he has tried ashwagandha leaves in boiled water which has gives some little improvement. So should that be continue? Please support.