Hello doctor, I am married and am having one kid. Now a days between my mom and husband some problems are creating. Both are not talking and not coming for compromise. My husband is having the habit of drinking. He came one day drinking fully my mom and dad asking him why drinking a lot? From that day problem is started. My mom is saying leave him permanently and come to our home you don't want to live him and my husband is saying don't go to your mom home and don't talk with your parents and they don't want to come our home. I want both of them and I don't want to lose any one of them. These two person problem making me mentally stress and I don't know what to do. Am not able to come to the solution. If I think this problem day by day am getting mentally stress please give me the solution to come out from this problem please suggest me some solution.
Ask Free Question
Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation and the stress going through in your mind. Sometimes it's better to ask a for an external help, when you all your options are exhausted or you want to validate your point of view. We always tend to be biased towards our decision and that restrict us to see the others point of view. This is most common problem in relationships issues. Don't hesitate to take a counseling help in such suitations. Feel free to reach me online or call for further evaluation of your suitation to assist you in handling it better. Be positive. You will be alright soon.
Ask Free Question
Your parents are more concerned about you than husband from what you say, unfortunately both are immature in asking to leave each other for now. Your hubby should first be treated for alcoholism and he should be willing for it. If so, you can continue with him and also never leave your parents. If hubby is not willing to stop alcohol by taking treatment, what your parents say is wiser on longer run, to leave him and go back to them. All the best
Take help from the best doctors
Ask a free question
Get FREE multiple opinions from Doctors