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Hi, I am a mother of 12 years old daughter she is in 7th std. She is in love with 14 years old boy he is in 9th std. Now a days she is spending time in listening music and chatting instead of her studies. She says at night night she does not like sleeping .In morning she does not want to wake up missing school .She does not want to study I have taken all necessary action to make her understand but she does not pay any attention on my words. I scolded her then she becomes aggressive and said I leave home and all. 12 years old girl saying she will leave home I am scared how can I handle the situation before it becomes worst. Please suggest what can I do. How can I make her understand the importance of the studies as she is far away from studies. She has a very careless attitude towards her studies upto an extent that me and her teachers are so damn frustrated of her. She doesn't study at all. She does not want to study but finishes her homework or CW. She knows how to manipulate everyone. Sometimes she behaves like she has a criminal mind like she becomes very aggressive. She keeps on lying every now and then. It's like her daily habit. In morning I have to shout on her to go to school. I have tried given her perks like if you will perform well and listen to me then I will get so and so things for you. I have also tried to emotionally show him that because of her such behavior I am so upset. I showed her so much love and requested to behave, as we are only putting efforts for her good. Etc etc I have put in all the kind of efforts that I can but seems like she is a stone or such a shameful child that nothing matters to her. I don't know how to tackle her anymore, looks like I have given up. Day by day I am going into depression. It looks like I am a fail parent. Can anybody please suggest what should I do now to tackle a child like her? Thanks.


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