Hi I got married in March 2018 in may I came to know that my wife had a love failure before our marriage and she was very close to that person for sometime. Went on dating with him many times. I am unable to take it. She loves me a lot and me too loves her a lot. I can't tell this to anyone as its my prestige issue as well. I feel deeply hurted ,depressed and crying from bottom of my heart day and night. I have not asked a single question to my wife on this. She had accepted this after seeing me crying day and night. But I did not said anything. What should I do, I am unable to forget this. I feel cheated. I am a simple person non alcoholic, non smoker and no girlfriends.

Mr. Senthilkumar LPsychologist4yrs exp

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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation. Any relationship can will be successful only when there is genuine love, understanding, give and take and fair communication among the partners. Pls look at how she is now with you. You clearly acknowledged that she loves a lot and accepted her past. Today it's very difficult to find anyone without a past love or relationship. You need to accept the fact than trying to tolerate it. Better take a marriage counseling help to understand these dynamics and ways to forgive the past and focus on the present life that is in hand. Feel free to reach out to for further assistance and counseling support.  

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