Hello, I have completed my M.Tech and I live in Maharashtra. I'm currently doing a job. I have a girlfriend that lives in Delhi. We meet once in 3-4 months. Recently I visited Delhi to meet her, and now I'm feeling like I should shift Delhi and take a hostel so that I can meet her every weekend and spend some time as I feel good. But I fear that this may distract me from my goals, ambitions, or may get me too much involved in social life thereby affecting my performance and competence etc. I'm very much confused. I need some good advice. Thanks.
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See first we have to understand the difference between urge and desire. Urge is a temporary feelings, while desire is lasting. Though urge is too intense, but as same it looses attraction quickly, once you get the thing you bore with it, or you don't have the importance of it, remember your childhood when you were crying for a toy and your father had not bought, at that time you were thinking this toy is my life and I need it now, but if today your father gift you same toy, what will be your reaction? The same thing for which you were craving and crying, now will laugh or may be aggressive on your parents, that they are kidding with you. So first sit alone, think about you and your friend, think whether it is just an urge or desire to live together, is it love or mere physical attraction or urge only if it is just an urge, don't need to run behind such foolish, after sometimes you will laugh on your stupidity or if it is true love, longing and desire, you have completed your studies, plan about marriage and enjoy the natural and true happiness of life. Cheers.
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