As per my knowledge vaseline gel or coconut oil is not good to try on my penis during trying for baby as it kills sperm count or affects sperm quality. But if I don not put any gel, it irritates as skin opens up and I don not feel anxious enough and spern does not comes out, so please suggest me the way so that without any ointment. I don not feel irritation and how to increase my sex appetite as I get tired for ling duration if work.