Hello doctor, I'm a married since six months and we hardly had sex for 10 times. When ever we try to make love my wife is feeling lot of pain and we thought it is common for first few times. But last two weeks before the pain extended for three days and we found it's an urine infection and it is treated. But two days before again we tried to make love still she is feeling pain and it lasted for few hours. Is it common or we want to consult a doctor again. And also give me some tips for painless sex.

Dr. Dinesh Kumar JagpalSexologist21yrs exp

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Some pain during first time sex is common. I advise you to do more foreplay of 15 to 20 minutes before going for sex. During foreplay, touch her body, boobs, lips, vagina and clitoris. Clitoris is the most sensitive part of female genatilia. By doing this, she will get excited and her vagina opens up. Now you can go for sex and put penis in vagina. Remember her feet should be above bed that is in air during penetration. Don't thrust penis into vagina and do sex sex slowly and the next part of vagina will open up, thus making sex easy. Follow this and give feedback.  

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