Hi sir, I know, every husband goes through, no matter how hard he tries to please her, some how she finds some fault in you. My wife's problem is that everything I do for her is wrong and at a wrong time. And in case if I accept my mistake and want to correct myself she will start it all over again. She will tell everything she wants but when it is my turn to speak, she says she doesn't want to hear the crap and nonsense and acts as if I don't even exist there. Suddenly she is normal and within minutes she is angry are her mood is spoiled and when you question her what happened, the answer is nothing. When I ask for a movie she will straight away say she doesn't want to go but few days she will. Complain about it that I don't take her out. I try to be romantic to make her happy she will say that please don't act as if you love me, please don't do this it looks very awkward when you do this. She complains that I don't spend time with her but when I do she says this is not the right time and also that I'm trying to force and being bossy because I talk to her when I feel like but she is not interested bcoz that is not right time and she is not in mood to talk, this happens even if I talk to her in morning, afternoon and night. Then I asked her please give me a timetable of your romantic and talking mood so I don't commit the mistake and talk to you at the right time and mood. I really don't understand how should I find in which mood she is and should I talk are be romantic to her. It doesn't end there in many other things this happens and I am always wrong and that I have screwed her life. There is a big confusion in my mind of who needs the psychiatrist is it me who does everything wrong at wrong time and mood are my wife who finds everything wrong. please advice. There are lot of other things that I want to mention but I think this is enough, if you are also happily married like me and others in this world who go through this but cannot do anything about it bcoz once again we are wrong and they are always right. God bless all the husband's in this world and save them.
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Go for couples counseling with your wife, and both of you should make an active effort to work on your relationship. Professional help will be useful to develop an understanding between both of you.
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