My 8 year daughter has grown up till now in a nuclear family. As both of us are working and wanted good night sleep, we used to make her wear diaper till 2 months back. Now we are attempting to make her not wear diaper. Some nights she is not bed wetting but there are nights when she is. We are waking her up at 3 am every night to relieve her bladder and then put her again to sleep. It is working but on some nights she is bed wetting before 3 am. Please let me know whether we are doing right or something need to be changed. For your information we make her pee before going to bed, and discourage her to have water after 9 pm.