I am married for 3 years. Female. Age 25. I am unable to be physical with my partner. I Fear the pain while inserting penis. We do a good foreplay but as soon as the moment of inserting comes I sweat of fear. What can be done for this problem. I do not understand why I am behaving like this. The fear of pain is so much that I cry sometimes. It is giving me a lot of stress. Please help. Thanking in advance.

Dr. Bhagyesh PatelGeneral Surgeon16yrs exp

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Hello dear Lybrate user, Warm welcome to Lybrate.com I have evaluated your query thoroughly. The issue needs to make your mind set change for sex, you have strong subconcious mind belief that it will pain when manhood goes inside. Only thing which will help you out to cure for lifetime is dedicated meditations, deep breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, YOGA which will boost your inner mental stamina for perspective towards sex, will make you relaxed mentally during the sex acts, release your inner hormones to make vagina wet, penis entry smoother with best sex experiences ever till now. Just think that no new born is having knowledge of sucking nipple of mother since birth, even though how he or she is doing by God`s blessing? Sex is just like that, no body is born with all these acts, it is the almighty God which governs the issues with fine tuning, problem arises when we think that we are doing all the things. Just believe that you are a mediator between god and your husband, that`s all, and see the results later on. If found useful in your life really, I would like to know your feedback later on anytime in your life. Hope this clears your query. Wishing you fine sex life ahead. Welcome for any further assistance at my private URL https://www.Lybrate.com/gandhinagar/doctor/dr-bhagyesh-patel-general-surgeon Regards take care.  

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