Hello! Doctor, I am going through extremely difficult time in my life this is because I have lost my wonder brother in 2012 of him having cancer. Since then my life has changed, I have going through severe depression and have I cannot come to terms of losing him. I cannot sleep, or eat and my health is somewhat going all over the place. I live alone, I am tired all the time, I cannot focus on anything or do anything, also I have noticed that I cannot seems to hold any items on my hand as they feel weak. I also have Asthma and it is also getting worse. I am having hair loss. I am constantly thinking of my wonderful brother. I have had counselling but it did not help. I don't wa nt to take depression tablets because they did not help. I also suffer Hypertension and cholesterol. please advise Thanks Nargis Chowdhury.