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I am 29, male, going to be married with my 1 year girlfriend soon. A week ago I came to know from her that she had a past relationship which involved sex. She had been hiding this from me as she feared that I would ditch her as her ex has done before. She was also blackmailed by her ex and his friend. We both belong to traditional families and this type of news would ruin our relationship. I have been into no physical affairs before. And also I am in love with her deeply. Although I have assured her that this would not ruin our relationship the thought that she had sex with someone else before me haunts me. I know this is wrong as she loves me as much as I do. Please help.
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Hi. Its is not possible to know her past if you trying to know by hymen layer broken or not let me tall you one thing that is not right away to know if you have trust on her then is good for you and her.
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Dont worry she seems to be a very good lady and has revealed her past. Men shouldn't be narrow minded brooding about the past of the lady. Since you love her, go ahead with the marriage and I am sure both ill be happy. But remember never ever take the matter of her past, even during your worst quarrel. All the best
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