I am 22 years old. Because of my family problems and my love life problems I am getting more and more irritated and get angry on small small things. M getting depressed soon. And I feel to commit suicide. I alsa attempted it twice. There is noon to understand me nor listen to me what I feel n what I want. My happiness is in my love but his family and my family isn't accepting because my family did very wrong with him. And he is behaving as his parents said him he is with me but don't want to marry me. What should I do? I am getting unnecessarily mad.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist47yrs exp

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You are a suicide attempter and luckily you have not succeeded. The fact, that this guy loves you, albeit not enough to marry you against the wishes of his parents is an indication that you are lovable. You are probably into an anger related depression for all of the reasons you mention but do not turn that anger towards yourself. If this guy is not willing to marry you, just move on and find another guy who will be stronger in his resolve. This is a set up for failure as it stands, and you will get more disturbed and depressed when it really happens. Right now there seems to be no hope of any reconciliation between the two families, and therefore between you two too. If you love yourself you will not tolerate any of this nonsense with this boy and wait unnecessarily for some kind of unforeseeable outcome. Your life is very precious to you at least, and unless you show that to others (including this boy) he will not have that regard for you. Work on your depression with a counselor and sort out your personal issues and work towards building yourself up and making a fabulous personality with what you already have. Suitable boys will come flocking after you! 

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