Hello sir, I am muslim and my husband is a hindhu. We got married 2 years before. My parents are quite opposite to my marriage. They are in contact with me but they never expresses their pain to me but I can understand how sad they are. I am in a confused state. Please help me. My husband dosent has any job. And I am really worried about my future and financial life with him. Where other side my parents they want me to left him then they will be happy. Otherwise they will worry all the time. My husband is a very good person. I love him very much. And he take care of me really very well. Because of the fear that my parents will get any health problems or worry more and cry if I tell my parents that I am staying with my husband I lied to them that I am staying with my friends to make them happy, they are more concerned about status, money and religion than my happiness. And I want both my husband and my parents and want them to be happy. I work in an mnc. I want my husband to be financially stable and how to convince my parents to accept my marriage and please be happy.

Dr. Rakhi AnandPsychologist27yrs exp

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Hello It is very important to discuss it with your husband so that you both can collectively talk to your respective families and try to convince them. Since The marriage is done now and you both are happy with each other they will understand this. It might take time but just keep trying to talk to both the families. Also your husband can try looking for job so that he is financially stable and he can convince on this ground as well.  

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Dr. N S S GauriAyurveda14yrs exp

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are you financially independent? means if you are financially dependent and you can earn sufficient to carry on your life then dont worry about your husband financial status but dont feed him as well minimally let your husband become self depend. your age is 21 and if you focus on your career you can achieve more than whatever basic need in life. now let us come to emotional level love comparison between parents and husband . don't feel panic with words of both means pinching words of husband and parents to provoke your duty towards them. dont try to find out whom you love more but see who loves you more. if your parents love you more go with them and if your husband loves you more go with him if both loves you really ask them to choose any way so that you can get both of them. i think there will be some conditions from your parents those should be in your husband. if your husband loves you he will do anything to please your parents to make you happy. and it is good chance for your husband to prove that really he loves you or he loves you with terms and conditions.  

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