Hello I want to know how to approach girls im 25 still no gf I feel always alone my all friends are now busy in their relationships and I am stuck here I am law student please help even I feel always fearful to propose girls never proposed any one and I think if I propose my female friends I will lose them please help me i am getting in depression

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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Your fear is doing you in. There is no doubt that relating to a member of the opposite sex is somewhat difficult. But we can add to that difficulty if we have certain predetermined notions that are incorrect and that can sabotage relations. One of the biggest impediments is the idea that you need to relate to girls with the intention of getting married. First you need to find girls with whom you feel a sense of comfort, just to learn to relate to them comfortably. If there is no ulterior purpose, it can be quite easy. The next thing to keep in mind is to use your domain strength to find the opening> For example, if you are good at a game, or subject, or at singing, you can see which girl is likely to be interested and you could relate to those persons with comfort. Keep sex out of your mind. It is better to start with known 'devils' which would be your classmates to break the ice. If you become self-conscious, then it is bound to jeopardize the contact. You will mess up the whole thing because it is close to being self-centered and no girl will like that at all. These are just a few suggestions. Now go and give it a good shot and report back about your rate of success.  

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