I am a 23 year old girl. My boyfriend broke up with me and married to another girl. Since we had sex while we were together, I couldn't move on with my life. I think I can forget about him. But when I think about getting married to another person I feel like I'm a cheater. Will I ever get over this feeling? Will I be able to marry another man? Should I tell the man who is going to marry me about my past experiences with my ex and that we had sex and all. How will I get over my ex and the fact that I am not a virgin anymore? Please help me please.

Dear lybrate-user I am sure that your past relationship must have had its own set of emotions and attachment. Yes, definitely you would be able to modify your thoughts and feelings as well as develop a sense of attachment and security in your future relationship. Disclosing of information is considered to be vital in building trust and enhancing communication in relationship but the decision is yours to discern and present the information. Depending on the intensity of past relationship and its importance, we can work on modification of thoughts and prepare to embrace our present and future in counseling and psychotherapy sessions.  

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