Hi I feel really stressed. I feel im not good enough for anyone im not able to express myself properly most of the time. If I get hurt I prefer keeping it within myself and when I someone does not understand me I tend to give up easily. And I do not give up on the person I love easily im very scared what if that person leaves me and I always do what I can to make that person happy forgetting about myself. I feel im actually lonely. What am I supposed to do? What do I do when someone does not understand me. How am I supposes to react to that situation.

Hi, I can well understand what it feels to be lonely and longing to have companionship. But your problem is not grave that it cannot be solved. Probably you seem to give extra weightage to others and to their qualities .You just need to focus inwards now so as to be able to see the good qualities you have. Better make a list of the qualities possessed by you .For which you can take help of the people who love you truely. Put that list where you can read it very often .Keep including items in that list and have faith in your abilities .We all are distinct but no less than others. Remember ,no one can ride your back until it is bent .Take pride in your being ,keep upgrading your self and the ones who love you would stick to you.  

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