Hi doctor, im from poor background family, I had great love towards my parents, but once I entered deg came in contact with a guy, he showed me. Lots of love and care, I trusted him, but he was doing like tat for sex, but I was unaware of tat, I was deeply influenced from him, he used me in all means, he was told he'll marry but he cheated after tat, after his work we had great clashes I request for marriage he didnt accept, he was sadist so I left him, later I continued my studies, I did msc, I got one more guy he was. My class mate, I taught he was good, I trusted him again I taught I would new life from. Him,but this guy again. Cheated me, he also did same thing, from all. This incidents, i was completely depressed later I got my. Msc, my parents were not well so I joined for job, I worked till my marriage, I came to know value of parents so I married as my parents wish, now after. marriage im feeling guilty, I got aborted naturally bcz of this depression, kindly please tell me what I should do, im having gult feel, I have great aim to help poor people and give free education to them, I have great dreams, but im unable to come. Out of it, please guide me wat s the step I should take up now, to overcome. Guil feel,
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Relax dear Lybrate user. You have really passed through very painful experiences, of course, because of your own innocence. I mean you were too immature to understand whatever happened to you. There is no need to have the feeling of guilt and shame, because almost every human being has to undergo such kind of experience before marriage, only it varies in degree or intensity, particularly in this modern world. You feel shame and guilt because you're very innocent and good-natured girl which, in my view, the boon for a husband to have a wife like you. No need to forget the past. Bcs they gave you a tremendous amount of valuable lesson for you. Allot time every day to think about it and make fun of yourself but never let know others. These thoughts will vanish on their own accord. Moreover you are preparing yourself for a noble cause -to give Gnana dhana to the needy people (education the highest order of Dhanas). Yes, you have found meaning to live. Keep going. All the best. Call me if you want more from me through Lybrate.
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