We got married 4 years ago and having 1.5 year old toddler. If I some up my problems in one word Its misunderstanding My in laws are not allowing us to understand each other. My husband works in IT industry (b'lore). I live with my parents. My in-laws lives in another district. Our small fights used to become big due to in-laws instructions. They wanna know each and everything that what's happening in our live. (Ex: once my mother in law asked about sexual life ). In fact my husband used to discuss everything with his mom (this is the problem for me actually). I tried a lot to stop her at some distance. But couldn't. I fought. Begged.pleased. Nothing worked out. 5 months back my husband took me to his parents house for 10 days stay. There was a big fight between me and in laws. That time husband was not around. Immediately my father in law phoned my dad and husband. Finally all 3 said to my dad that take back your daughter. I said I won't go out of this house. For that they rushed to my parents house and shouted in front of my House. So I felt things are becoming big and let's go back to mom's place. Its been 5 months. My hubby visited my kid only once. He spent 5 mins with him and left. Last month I called my husband and said that I want to talk to you in person. He said ok. The next day I could see he has blocked my number and didn't come to meet me. We do not have common friends. I can not approach any relatives. Because as said I can't move anything beyond my in laws.� So here is the situation:� my husband close relative cousin is blessed with baby (they used to talk to my dad). They informed us. For her baby shower function, my husband stopped them to invite us (they felt sorry for this).� My husband's grandmother was hospitalized (now she is fine. Aged around 80). Came to know about this via another relative. Do I have to go see them or not. Or shall I maintain distance from my husband and his relatives till he realise and come back to me. What would be the wise decision. I feel like they will dominate me and my parents if I go meet them. I know my in laws hates me completely. Will my husband come to me against of his parents. We both doesn't wanna end this relationship as well. Kindly advice.