Meri or mere bf ki 1 year break up ho gaya. Hum dono ke andar koi jhagra nehi huya. Ushe koi or mil gaya isliye usne mujhe chord diya. Pehle jab usne proposed kiya or kuch din bad maine ha bol diya. Wo mere liye pagal tha, main jaha jati wo mere piche piche jata tha, meri college ka koi kam ho to wo kar deta tha. Main agar usse break up karna chahti thi to wo rone lag jata tha. But kuch din bad wo kam ke liye kolkata chala jaya or dhire dhire mujhe contact karna chor diya. Maine bohat contact karneki kousish ki but kuch vi nehi huya. 1 year 2 months ho ho gaya phir vi main ushe bhool nehi pa rahi hun, uske saath bitaya gaya haar lamha mujhe jine nehi deta, uske saath bitaya huya memories mujhe andar se khaye ja rahi hai. Wo mujhe chorke khush hai paar main ushe vul nehi pa rahi hun. please help main keise thik hun? Keise usse vul jayun?

First of all I will say ke main aapki feelings ko samajh sakta hoon ,Apne jo bataya uske anusar Aap usko bhul nahi pa rahi hai uska Khayal apko har waqt shayad aata rehta hai, hamesha woh Aap ke Dimag me rehta hai. Aap ne jo kuch bataya wo sab teekh hai lekin yeh saari sad feelings apko isliya Aa rahi hai kyuki Aap uske liya emotional ho rahi hai matlab agar Aap emotional na ho uske liya to cheeza teekh ho sakti hai. To emotions badalne ke liya Aap ko thoda hat ke sochna padega matlab Dimag kholke aur sara pehluo ke baare me sochna padega ,to jab uska Khayal Aa ye to sochna hai ki agar yeh mujhe pyar nahi karta to Kya main iske sath ek majbut relationship ki ummed kar sakti hoon matlab Kya Aap ek bharosamand partner chaheti hoon ya phir wo jo Aap as time paas kare. Doosra Aap ki liya Apne life goal bhi hai. I hope ke aap agar Aap en batao pe bhi dhyan do to Aap in feelings se aaram se deal kar lengi. All the best.  

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