Please advise for avoiding overexcitability during sexual act with partner. Even the touch of partner at organ during act leads to early discharge within seconds. This happens even when condom is used. Also there is no problem with erection. It is rapid and satisfactory. Please advise after analysis. Start and squeeze techniques have failed. Married male with children aged 45. Married since 20 years. This problem was similar during early married days also.

Dr. Amit AgarwalPsychologist8yrs exp

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All medicines have side effects masturbation once a day is quite normal and harmless Try this it will help u. Pls note most of the times premature ejaculation (PE) occurs due to speed. We tend to go fast and in the process the sperm comes out sooner that required. Maintain a low speed and keep on taking deep breathes (when you penetrate) and stop for 30 seconds if you feel like ejaculating. U can practise this process while you masturbate, to gain confidence & remember that you need to enjoy the process and keep taking slow deep breathes. I would also suggest you to engage in some form of relaxation or yoga, to relieve your anxiety symptoms. Anxiety is another cause of PE. Engaging more in oral sex, without touching each others' genitals also helps in setting up the relaxation mode. Then you can go for penetration without much anxiety. For erectile dysfunction you can try getting stimulation from years partner, like proper liking or other forms of hand and oral stimulation in case you want a one to one talk with me, pls contact Lybrate for booking an appointment.  

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