Hi, I am 31 years old female. My grandfather died in 2001. Someone told that who loves them they will take with them, he loves my mom, from that time fear is started in me, whether my mom will die with my grandfather? Even if she goes out I feel very nerves, I have a fear what will happen to hear. I was not able to sleep. I was not able to talk with others. I was not doing what others are doing. I was not happy from inside. Still my mind is not free, something is holding me. Sometimes feel if I do this my mom will die? This kind of thoughts is coming in my mind. I am not able to work .Because I too love my mom. But my mom is good still now, but I am not able to come out from that fear and this thoughts. Wile watching TV if something happened to mother character, I feel it is my mom, And also I am losing memory power. I don?t like K from alphabets because my grandfather name and my mom name starts with K and I don?t like no 4. It is been 17 years I am suffering. Suggest me how to overcome this.