I am recently married on 25th may. I am very disturbed from my bed life, I don't talk anything with my parents because first I decide to share on Lybrate but with very shame, its too many days my husband don't touch me. I hug my husband many time in bed but no any reaction I feel. From last 3 days I leave my shy and change my clothes at night in front of him totally nude but honestly sleep with crying eyes no any reaction and my last try last night was I ask him I feel hot weather I remove my t shirt with totally nude breast I sleep and hug my husband try to hold his hand on my breast but don't see any reaction and try to touch his penis, really surprised no any hardness, try everything feel shame to say rub his penis on vagina also but no erection and he just little smile, I talk to him but not a proper answer he given. I am beautiful fair, I am surprised how its possible I am totally nude with him but he have no erection. Need advice.

Dr. P.N.ChandranHomeopath21yrs exp

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Marriage life is a Gift of God. Together sharing, adjusting, helping, etc. Etc. Are starting from marriage life. There are a lot of simple to very simple problems usually happens in the beginning days. Gradually it vanishes after understanding each other, knows well either, and everything. Don't get upset on facing bitter or difficult situations but, patients pays. Knowing each other is also a continued process for years it will took. But remember for a happy life - understanding and adjustment from both part is mandatory, Ones desire and taste should understand each other, and do accordingly. This sharing helping process gradually gets bonding relationship between the couples. All the best for a happy life.  

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Dr. Deepak AroraSexologist6yrs exp

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dont panic...sex is very important for building relationship in initial phase but is not the only thing in relationship. try to understand your partner , more than you he might be frustrated with the situation. sex is something you cant force it will happen when one is stress free...no sexual problem is untreatable so dont worry..once you both understand each other better than he will be ready to satisfy your needs... dont share all these with your parents and give your relationship a chance. consult for further guidance and treatment for your husband. 

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