Hello Sir. I have this problem. I am used to masturbating by rubbing my penis on the bed. Now whenever I have intercourse, I do not orgasm at all, I only get tired. After that I have rub myself to ejaculate. This is affecting our baby planning. Its almost impossible to ejaculate into my wife. Kindly help.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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Masturbating by rubbing against the bed will offer a lot of friction. Since you have gotten used to that, vaginal contact will be a lot smoother and so you will not experience the friction of bed masturbation. If you like you may wipe off the discharge from the vagina and find some resistance which will certainly improve the ejaculation. However, you cannot do this always because the lubrication is supposed to be reduced and this will cause less discomfort fro your wife. So hit a balance between your needs and hers.  

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