Hi Gone through divorce immediately after marriage & gone through depression at that time for few months. Lost 8/9 kgs but it is over now. Still I behave very rudely with my parents though they always suffered me helped me & sincere thanks to them that m alive & put on weight :) Everything is good now having a Job good career friends but still I feel irritated & always behave very bad with my parents. With all others m the best person to hang out with. Why can't I be so good with my parents. They are very good ppl. Please suggest actual problem & solution.
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It might be your personality. Probably your parents might have understand you whatever you do. That's why they will have sustained relationship with you. You first understand that's you are such person and very easily you will be break down. Whenever you are in such state you anticipate that you will develop anger in that situation and try to keep away that situation. It will disappear in minutes and then you can say whatever you want to say to them. When you engage in any new relationship first you should let him know that you are such a kind of person and ask him that not to judge you whenever you are in anger not to bother whatever you said in that anger state. Then life will be ok All the best.
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Even though you say that you have come out of depression following divorce, and now having good job and friends, you may be still feeling that parents are responsible for the unfortunate divorce. You may be feeling that the selection of the partner in marriage by them was wrong. They did not enquire about the boy and his family enough. You are not like other friends in married life. You had a failure in marriage, due to your parents. I suggest you meet a psychiatrist with your parents and discuss this issue. Or there may be issues with them regarding the second marriage. It is almost impossible to forget the traumatic event of divorce, it's reasons and consequences. But you must try to forgive and stop blaming others or regretting about the events. Be little more careful in the second marriage and discuss with parents and psychiatrist or a psychologist about what to expect in marriage, and how to deal with the marital problems, if they arise and how to solve them. If your good with everybody else except your parents, these may be the issues I feel. Feel free to discuss with parents and a psychiatrist. Be optimistic and settle down in life and I am sure you will have a good life in future.
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