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I am in relationship with a girl since 5 yrs. Both of us were serious abt it. But since last year it's not working. It started wen we try to do sex. We always had love making but not reached to level of penetration. The time when I tried to penetrate I got ejaculated. This happened for 4-5 times. Then afterwords my gf was not ready to do anything. She doesn't want to even kiss mi since that day. We had also conflicts with other things. I was struggling in my carrier also. So many things lead to loss of her interest in mi. She nw says she feels irritated when she was with mi. She don't even want to talk with me. I know I was also responsible for it. But I want her back in my life. I still love her even if she hurts mi by ignoring mi. I have started treatment for pre mature ejaculation. But nw she don't want anything. Don't want mi in her life again. She don't want to consult any physician for this. What should I do. Does everything will be normal. Does counselling will help her. Or should I move on. She want mi to move on. please suggest.
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Hi I just want to say that have a good sex is not the mean of healthy relationship. In love making process one of the most important thing required your trust and commitment to your partner. This value will give you confidance for next step. So my suggestion is first asked to your self weather you love her just for friendship and healthy sexual life or something more. If your commited for her then only try to convince her. Take help of professional otherwise you should keep your self healthy and move for your next.
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