Hello docter, Mai last 4 years se apne city se bahar rah kr job kr rhi thi aur life smoothly ja rhi thi, weekends pr aa kr mai apne husband ke sath time spend krti thi, jo ki akele hi rhte the home town me. Fir mujhe laga ki transfer le kr mujhe huby ke sath hi rahna chahiye, so apply kr diya, fir apni jab ki sari seniorty khatm krke and demotion lekr is ummid me home town me transfer le liya ki hum dono sath rahenge, khush rahenge. Jaise hi mai ghar ayi to huby ke morher father bhi humare sath hi rhne lge apne parentle ghar ko chhod kr, jo ki mere liye bilkul bhi nice nhi hain, fir bhi adjust kiya. Bt last 26 february ko mujhe apni didi ke ghar noida jana pda kam bahut zaruri tha so chali gyi, pati ko bataya bhi tha, aur unhone mna bhi kiya bt maine request ki aur bola ki jana zaruri hai to unhone na to han bola aur na hi mna ki so mai chali gyi. Iske bad jb ghar ayi to huby me tandav macha rkha tha, ki mai apni didi ke ghar gyi kyu? Unhone mujhe one week ke andar ghar chhod kr jane ka hukm suna diya fir mere ghar fon kr ke papa ji ko bhi mere bare me bht bura bura bola. Mai bilkul toot gyi hun, jis insan ke liye apni job seniorty khtm krke ayi demotion lekr ayi 7000/ per month ke loss pr, wo mere sath aisa kaise kr skta hai, tb se aj tk unse bat nhi kr rhi hu, jitna zaruri hota hai utna hi bolti hu. Doctor mai bilkulbikhar si gyi hu, kisi kam me man nhi lgta, bahut taklif me hun, har wqt suicide ke khayal ate rahte hai, man krta hai ghar chhod kr chali jaun kisi dusre city me transfer le lun. Thak gyi hun is zingi se narak ho gyi hai zindgi. Meri age 45 years or huby ki age 52 years hai, do bachhe hain beti 23 years ki or beta 21 years ka. please mujhe rasta batayen.
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Hello dear Suman dont get depressed your kids r grown up n they can manage themselves n why r you thinking for suicide be strong ,you r independent n r earning good take transfer n live your life for yourself n your parents n enjoy each day of your life ,dear suman life is very precious n dont waste it in thinking about such stupid people
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Hello lybrate-user ji. You seem to be a brave women. You have compromised so many things in your life so you can't be scared now. It's your life and you have to take a positive stand for it. As you have young children and if parents fight it's give negative impact. You know the situation better if you taking transfer will help you go for it. Otherwise I will suggest give a chance to your relationship and talk to your husband once about everything be soft don't lose your temper. Try and sought out things as ego does not work in any relationship. Go for cup of coffe with him spend time and discuss your feelings. If he really loves you he will understand and gets normal.
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