I have been on a trip to goa with my office colleagues we were happy bt I have fallen for a guy who is already married with two kids he is very charming and handsome he is 40 and am 24 bt still I am attached he knows everything we got into an intimate moment bt came back as it was cheating on his wife and my boyfriend bt from then I have seen many changes in my behaviour am very talkative bt I have become silent I am not speaking with my boyfriend well I feel everything has been turned wrong I want him to be with me make me happy I know it's wrong and it won't happen bt still my heart is grooving for him he is so handsome happy type of person adventures and fun loving and my boyfriend he is completely opposite am in a big mess I feel it's a never ending road bt I want to walk I love this person though he is married I have fallen for him. Please help.
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I do not know whether you should continue your relation with the 40 year old. But definetly you should break up with your boyfriend. First you cheated him second you do not find him great then whats the point continuing. Live your life freely but do not cause any hindrance in his married life. Consult for counseling.
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Its perfectly normal, dont feel guilty about it. Even in a relationship adults having sex outside is quite normal. In life love, passion and lust have thin boundaries. As long as it is a consensual sex between 2 consenting adults then it is medically not wrong. But different societies, and culture promote monogamy as the way of life and consider these events as ethically wrong. Whether this is right, varies between individual perception according to their own brought up, cultural values, and knowledge. What is right for one is wrong for another. So don't make life complicated and live as it comes. Enjoy life without making others or yourself unhappy.
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