Hello all. From past days I feel mostly negative .depressed thought I get irritated n angry very soon .not a single person is there who can understand me nor anyone's behavior I like (I tried a lot to cope up with them BT commenting on girls using slangs roaming like lofers I can not endure it ).I know the fact that that's life .so its better to alone and be strong since childhood days loneliness is my friend BT it never affected me I used to enjoy by listing songs n etc and today also BT now its difficult to enjoy I'm not DAT lonely BT then also I feel lonely negative thinking is eating me than also I like to think it I feel little good by it its funny BT its true even I will listen songs also it will go into my head means .ajeeb hi bimari hai yee even I don't able to describe it properly .like even I watch movie .I will think about it. I think too much BT I can't control .I think I'm a good guy never ever done any wrong BT my destiny is .BT there r some guys WO drinks waste money play with emotion etc they don't only have a good health plus good life good physique and top student also and me I'm too slim just 40 kg .no drinks respect all .study most of time BT result average .even I will complete my whole book each n every line and sums of it then also at xam point I will forgot everything .so I accepted mai top tho kavi nai honey wala kismat me nai .I have accepted all those facts than also I'm not feeling that happiness I always laugh BT that smile doesn't reach to my eyes. Whatever what's your opinion sir n ma'am .plz don't tell me to share my problem to anyone as none can understand it .problem should be tackled by own. Ty.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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No man is an island. We all need people and are social animals, gregarious by nature and interdependent. Your loneliness will do more harm than good. You cannot pretend in life to be happy. You need to interact with people and develop tolerance. Not everything in life is going to be according your wish and desire. You must go and meet with a counselor immediately and if that person advises that you meet with a doctor you must do so and cooperate to your utmost. Please visit these professionals along with your parents. In the meantime please do the following sincerely because you could resolve the problem better with good cooperation: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least, 30 minutes but not in the scorching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don’t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love. Learn all about emotions and how to handle them and that will get you out of the depression rather easily and quickly. A counselor is there only to facilitate you, all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive every day and learn to be contented with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do calisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. Whatever happens please cooperate with the therapy and do not discontinue until the condition is completely resolved.  

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