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Mr. Selva

Sexologist, Pondicherry

Mr. Selva Sexologist, Pondicherry
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Mr. Selva is one of the best Sexologists in Ariyapalayam, Pondicherry. He is currently practising at selva in Ariyapalayam, Pondicherry. Save your time and book an appointment online with Mr. Selva on Lybrate.com.

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Sir I am facing problem relating to the erection during intercourse, please tell me is their any way out to treat it. I am just 29 years of age and not facing any problem such as diabetes, heart problems etc. Please also tell me the reason why I am facing such problem.

MD - Consultant Physician, Doctor of Medicine, MD
General Physician, Ahmedabad
Sir I am facing problem relating to the erection during intercourse, please tell me is their any way out to treat it....
It's anxiety in most cases don't get over exited stay cool let her play till you are aroused well automatically don't build guilt feelings.
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I am facing very less interest of sex with my wife. Erection and desire of sex is the main problem. I am 45 years old. Kindly provide some permanent and effective solution.

B.Sc, Bachelor of Unani Medicine and Surgery (B.U.M.S), M.D General Medicine
Unani Specialist, Hyderabad
I am facing very less interest of sex with my wife. Erection and desire of sex is the main problem. I am 45 years old...
Do Romance with Your wife in a Private Place. Take ASWAGANDHA Powder 5grms twice Daily with Honey. Consult UNANI PHYSICIAN On Consultation.
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I am 27 years old man, and my penis don't comes out wholly as the over skin obstruct it. Hence doing sex by wearing condom is very difficult. Is it a defect? Please suggest what to do.

PDDM, MHA, MBBS
General Physician, Nashik
I am 27 years old man, and my penis don't comes out wholly as the over skin obstruct it.
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It seems that you have phimosis. The initial choice of treatment is a steroid ointment that is locally applied. (this can be suggested by a doctor after you are examined in person) the ointment softens the foreskin and is applied for up to 6 weeks. When full retraction is possible the ointment is stopped. If this treatment is unsuccessful, a circumcision (surgical removal of foreskin) may be advised.
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Hello sir I want ask yu my wife is percent so I would ask you she has 41 weight how to gain weight she suffer from thyroid also she has 1.26 thyroid d so how to gain weight so pls tell me any diet, she ask also can do sex in pregent time reply me.

PDDM, MHA, MBBS
General Physician, Nashik
Hello sir I want ask yu my wife is percent so I would ask you she has 41 weight how to gain weight she suffer from th...
Here is a sample diet Breakfast - 1 glass banana milkshake+ 5 khajur+ 5 anjeer, •. Mid morning - 2 chikoo •. Lunch - 4 chapati + 1 bowl sabji+1 bowl dal++ 1 bowl rice + 1 bowl curd •tea time - tea + 1 pckt parleg •. Late evening - 1 bowl roasted chana •dinner same as lunch •. Bed time - 1 glass banana milkshake Sex can be done in second trimester only after the permission of your gynecologist.
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Hello Sir, I am a 25 years guy, Unmarried. From the last 6-8 years, I was practicing masturbation. Earlier in a day I use masturbation 1-2 times, then slowly it came less, now a days sometimes after 3-4 days only. In last couple of days, I have seen a liquid comes through my penis. These days it comes more even if I see sexy pictures or I think about the sex or talk about sex. Earlier days I dn't feel any weakness but during the last 1 years after masturbation, I feel more weakness. Even if see the sexy photographs and the liquid comes out I feel weakness. My penis is little bend towards left. Few days back when I did masturbation, I could not get erected my penis a long time and before ejaculation I got discharged within a minute. I also feel sometimes headache When I dnt do masturbation within a week. Neither I smoke nor take any alcohol. I also felt that I have low sperms count in my fluid and small size issue. I am much worried that in this position. These are some symptoms. Hence you are requested to advice me on this condition what I have to do. Please suggest some medicines to relief.

BHMS
Homeopath,
Hello Sir, I am a 25 years guy, Unmarried. From the last 6-8 years, I was practicing masturbation. Earlier in a day I...
Dear lybrate user, you are sufferinf from spermatorrhoea. Continue the following medications for at least 20 days to get rid of your problem of spermatorrhoea:- 1) take 5 drops of homoeopathic china 30 or cinchona officinalis 30, thrice daily, in empty stomach. 2) take 30 drops of homoeopathic mother tincture acid phos q in a cup of water daily after lunch. 3) take 30 drops of homoeopathic mother tincture ashwagandha q in a cup of water daily after dinner. Apart from medicines you could try a home therapy. Soak 5 grams of fennel seeds (snouff) & 5 grams of rock candy (misri) in a glass of water before going to bed daily. On waking up next morning drink the snouf-misri soaked water in empty stomach.
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I hv a regular nightfall. Pls hlp me to prevent tat. Pls say me d cure abut tat diseases.

MBBS
General Physician, Chennai
I hv a regular nightfall.
Pls hlp me to prevent tat.
Pls say me d cure abut tat diseases.
Night fall is common at your age do not worry exercise regularly eat well to grow up there is no cure.
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In my body automatically sperm drops are relizeing how to prevent from that please some natural treatment please.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), MD - Ayurveda
Sexologist, Haldwani
In my body automatically sperm drops are relizeing how to prevent from that please some natural treatment please.
Hello- this is due to improper functioning of your pubococcygeus muscles which control ejaculation. It happens due to weakening and sexual organs and need some serious help. 1. Practice kegel exercise. 2. Take zinc supplements daily. 3. Avoid masturbation. 4. Eat asparagus daily. 5. Ayurvedic medicines can cure your problem permanently.
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Does masturbation on daily basis have side effects on hairs like whitening of hairs or weakening of eyesight and skin disorder. Please advise.

Advanced Aesthetics
Ayurveda, Gulbarga
Does masturbation on daily basis have side effects on hairs like whitening of hairs or weakening of eyesight and skin...
During teenage, masturbation can be done once a week after that it should not be done more than 2-3 times a week till marriage. The vitality and vigour lost due to excessive masturbation cannot be regained back by medicines or food excessive masturbation is very bad for health. Excessive masturbation is the main reason for pre-ejaculation/ erection problem. Swpandosh or nightfall problem also occurs due to excessive masturbation (daily masturbation comes in the category of excessive masturbation). Excessive masturbation can cause weak body, cheeky face, weak eye sight, graying of hair, less weight, fatigue, general weakness, constipation, less appetite, non-erection, low libido, nightfall and many more, for treatment medicines are ashwagandha cap 2 times a day and tab-chitrrakadivati 2 times a day.
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Pain During Sex - How You Can Make it Less Painful?

MDEH, BUMS
Sexologist, Delhi
Pain During Sex - How You Can Make it Less Painful?

A healthy physical relationship is not only stimulating, but it also enhances your emotional bonding with your partner and reduces stress in both partners. However, statistics report that almost 30% of the women experience pain during intercourse. This not only hampers the pleasure, but is also an unhealthy sign since it is indicative of a problem.

Painful intercourse could be a regular occurrence, or a sporadic one. There could be numerous reasons that cause the discomfort and pain. Though it might be an early manifestation of grave diseases such as endometriosis or fibroids, but more often, it is triggered due to conditions such as vaginal dryness, yeast infection, bacterial vaginiosis, which can be easily treated. It is pertinent to understand that it is not the physical infirmity of the entire female anatomy that causes such pain/ discomfort, but the existence of certain conditions that can be treated by a medical practitioner.

Certain such causal factors associated with painful intercourse and the efficient ways to deal with them are discussed below:

1. Vaginal dryness - Vaginal dryness is one of the most commonly cited causes for painful intercourse. There are various causal factors of vaginal dryness. These include, but are not limited to, consumption of certain drugs, bathing with hot water, health conditions or even lack of foreplay. Vaginal dryness due to the aforementioned causes is a short-lived condition that can be treated well with the help of a medical practitioner.
Usage of lubricants that is suitable for you, as advised by a medical practitioner, could go a long way in aiding the ease of sexual intercourse. The lubricants act as an effective substitute, if the body is unable to naturally secrete vaginal fluids to ease intercourse, thereby greatly reducing the pain that is experienced.

2. Improper vaginal expansion - The female anatomy is designed in such a way that it expands normally during intercourse. Proper foreplay enables the woman to get excited, which results in the release of vaginal fluids that aids in sexual intercourse. However, in the event that the female is not excited enough prior to the act, sexual intercourse can become a painful act, since the vagina is unable to expand in the absence of vaginal fluids. In such cases, take things slow and give your body time to comfortably go with the flow.

3. Vaginal itching caused by infection - Vaginal infections can be caused by antibiotics, prior sexual activity that has resulted in contraction of Sexually Transmitted Diseases etc. This results in an itching or burning sensation while having sex. It is essential to rest your body instead of forcing things, and to consult your doctor as soon as possible. The doctor can correctly diagnose the causal factors behind the infection, and prescribe the necessary medicines for it.

However, if your symptoms vary from the common ones mentioned above, or in case you have a different query, it is always advisable to consult the doctor.

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26 years old male recently married, my wife is 22 years old. For sex I could not enter into her as it is very dry and tight. Pls advise.

BHMS
Homeopath, Delhi
26 years old male recently married, my wife is 22 years old. For sex I could not enter into her as it is very dry and...
Will suggest you not to directly try to penetrate. There is a term called foreplay which helps in natural lubrication and then slowly try to enter after 15-20 mins of foreplay. Ask your wife to relax as if she is not relaxed it will be difficult for both of you. You can use some lubricating gel or lignocaine gel which will lubricate n even will lessen her pain.
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Hello sir, Me & my girlfriend had sex before 14-15 days and her period stopped, what should we do to avoid pregnancy. What should i do?

M D, DNB MNAMS FCPS DGO
Gynaecologist, Mumbai
Hello sir, Me & my girlfriend had sex before 14-15 days and her period stopped, what should we do to avoid pregnancy....
Get a pregnancy test done. Visit a doctor earliest. Early pregnancy can be tackled through medications.
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When I do sex then I have no stamina for long time please help me how can improve my sex stamina.

Bachelor of Unani Medicine and Surgery (B.U.M.S)
Unani Specialist, Hyderabad
When I do sex then I have no stamina for long time please help me how can improve my sex stamina.
1. Home remidise take 10 almond one glass of milk eat & drink one hour before sex or 10 dates with milk or 4 bananas with milk
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I am 27 year old male, whenever I have sex I cum very early and my penny doesn't keep tight for long, and it doesn't get tight within time it takes more then four to five hours to get tight second time.

MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
I am 27 year old male, whenever I have sex I cum very early and my penny doesn't keep tight for long, and it doesn't ...
Involve more time in fore play activity with your partner and stop Mastubation and at the time of sexual activity concentrate only on sex and increase your self confidence and also eat protein rich food and take tablet nurokind more 1-1 for a month
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Hi, I am aged 21, I had testicles paining from 5 months. Left testicle sagging lying down hanging very lower, my problem is bilateral grade 1 varicocele, recently 10 days back I had bilateral varicocelectomy, but still my left testicle sagging or lying down hanging very lower and paining, is the operation successful?

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), MD - Ayurveda
Sexologist, Haldwani
Hi, I am aged 21, I had testicles paining from 5 months. Left testicle sagging lying down hanging very lower, my prob...
Hello, Grade Ist varicocele can be managed and cured effectively with ayurvedic treatment. Do consult your near by ayurvedic doctor before going for surgery. Genital structure once damaged (surgery induced) can not be recovered later by any means.
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Dr. My private part is small (4.5 inch). Please suggest me any kit which is helpful for lengthen the penis. Are these kits available on medical stores? Please.

BHMS
Homeopath, Sindhudurg
Dr. My private part is small (4.5 inch). Please suggest me any kit which is helpful for lengthen the penis. Are these...
Hello. The average size of penis is 5.54 inches (14.07 cm) length and 3.11 inches (7.9 cm) girth are enough to perform a successful sexual intercourse. You can buy penis enlargement package. Do not take from medical without consulting dr.
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Hi my question is I have been mastrubutating from. 6 or 7 standard and frequency is daily means from 12 or 14 years of age , I have mastrubutated a lot, I used to get stimulated on seeing girls and used to mastrubutate when I used to come home during bed time. The girls I used to visualise were my classmates or neighbour girls ,I used to feel very bad inside that I am doing something wrong but I used to enjoy masturbation. I perform it on a daily basis , Now my problem is I get erections preety fast when I see rape scene on crime patrol ,when my penis touches the ground I.e when I sleep flat on the face, I when I sit next to beautiful women, I am facing a lot of concentration problems I don't know why but from long time . I feel everyday to mastrubutate ,even if I came back home from office I mastrubutate visualizing office women , I don't want to be a dog but it is very much pleasurable, I can't give it up. But I think I am facing a lot of psychological problems because of masturbation Sometimes I used to mastrubutate 2 to 3 times a day. Actually there are some psychological problems associated with masturbation. Like concentration problems, lack of self esteem ,restless mind, lack of mind control, I want to know the problems associated with it Because I am unable to concentrate and I do anything ,I will buy 20 shirts at once or I will purchase three spectacles at once, I am unable to control my mind its getting restless day by day ,I don't want to spoil my life and will be better that I control it now itself ,does masturbation is behind all these things.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurveda, Bundi
Hi my question is I have been mastrubutating from. 6 or 7 standard and frequency is daily means from 12 or 14 years o...
'shukra kshay' is probably the main reason. It means excessive deterioration of shukra dhatu (semen) in any way'mann, buddhi, indriyan' - all are responsible for healthy state of mind giving psychological balance. Shukra kshay causes imbalance of these three as well. I would prefer you to start thinking nothing good or bad about it as of now. You won't be able to do control. I ll tell you: first of all clean guts for three days by herbal choornas. Then start taking very light, non spicy food. Drink lots if water (4 bottles minimum). Start pranayam, walks, light exercises, yoga etc. Do it all in next two weeks. When you report me back I ll ask you various questions. Info will be used to determine next step which will, most probably be, palliative'vrushya' stambhan herbal combos.
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How can I cure premature ejaculation? Please suggest me any treatments?

MBBS
Sexologist,
How can I cure premature ejaculation?  Please suggest me any treatments?
You have premature ejaculation problem. I advise you to do slow and deep breathing relaxation exercises in the morning. Take proper balanced vegetarian diet. Take lots of water and fluids. For proper treatment,
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How to make ejaculation strong? When I masturbate I get sperm out in 3-4 minutes so how to get it late?

BAMS, MD Ayurveda
Sexologist, Lonavala
How to make ejaculation strong?
When I masturbate I get sperm out in 3-4 minutes so how to get it late?
The best ayurveda herb for your case is natural home remedy using asparagus powder and milk: 1. Take 2 tsp indian asparagus powder 2. Add 1 cup milk 3. Boil the mixture for 10 min 4. Drink 2 times every day this remindy will be helpful.
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If sperm comes out, how many days it takes to segregate in body, whether its segregate or it will lose from our body, what food should I have to be take to be energy gain soon, because of this whether body lose weight please give. Suggestion to be correct in my life.

MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
If sperm comes out, how many days it takes to segregate in body, whether its segregate or it will lose from our body,...
Sperms are daily produced in the testis and it takes five days to have a normal sperm count and eat protein rich food
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While having sex with wife , I am not able to withstand for more than 2 min. And not able to penetrate into female vagina and before that itself ejaculates for me and erection gets reduced. Please kindly give suggestion on this.

MD, BHMS
Homeopath, Mumbai
While having sex with wife , I am not able to withstand for more than 2 min. And not able to penetrate into female va...
Excessive excitement before intercourse can lead to disturbance in both erections and ejaculations you can try following tips to improve your performance. Indulge in lot of foreplay before intercourse. Practice kegels exercise, stop and start techniques to improve your controls during the act. Please talk to your partner about this problem, try female on top position to improve the time. Homeopathic medicines lycopodium 30 3 pills 2 times aday for a month, observe the difference and let me know any help needed.
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