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Mr. Selva

Sexologist, Pondicherry

Mr. Selva Sexologist, Pondicherry
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Mr. Selva is one of the best Sexologists in Ariyapalayam, Pondicherry. He is currently practising at selva in Ariyapalayam, Pondicherry. Save your time and book an appointment online with Mr. Selva on Lybrate.com.

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Dear sir/ madam I am 46 years old unmarried guy desperate to get married but circumstances are not in my favour. I masturbate at times to avoid sexual tension. I have inferiority complex, ocd (hand washing), lack confidence. I have very poor memory and concentration. I am having 3rd degree piles also. One to one and half centimetres skin comes out after I pass motion. I use fingers to push them back after my motion is over. I am jobless as I cannot perform on the job due to all these issues I get night falls once in 3 weeks I feel heat all over my body, my eyes burn, I watch television, Read newspaper, work on computer, use smart phone I get yellow boils on my face and scalp sometimes on neck, body, hands, legs. The concentration is on the tip of nose, sides of lips and top back end of scalp. Itching, burning sensation is also present. I also get internal hard boils which burst after a while with pus and blood oozing out. The boils make me uncomfortable. I use soap on my face two to three times daily. I have oily face. I am using Himalaya ophthacare for my eyes with temporary relief from eyes burning Rgds

POST GRADUATE DIPLOMA IN CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGY, Masters in clinical psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Dear sir/ madam
I am 46 years old unmarried guy desperate to get married but circumstances are not in my favour. I ma...
Hello Mr. lybrate-user I am glad that you are approaches us. I can understand your problem. You have lots of physical problem, For these problems you want to go with homeopath, if it's help you pl carry on. As A Counselor I suggest you some lifestyle changes in your daily life pl try it. 1- pl take some time for yourself, sit alone and think positive (I am a happy and healthy person) 2- Take deep breath. 3- spend 25-30 minute at a social gathering. 4- Take some time for your hobby. 5- Take everyday morning and evening walk. Pl write me about you are feeling good or not at next week, with your family history. Thanks.
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I am seafaring with pearly penile papules on penis With out surgery n without laser treatment it is possible to get normal? I am not redy to come to the hospital if any medicine is there please tell.

PDDM, MHA, MBBS
General Physician, Nashik
I am seafaring with pearly penile papules on penis With out surgery n without laser treatment it is possible to get n...
Pearly Penile papules are a normal anatomic variant. They are not due to sexual activity or lack of hygiene. They are more common in uncircumcised men. Treatment is not necessary. Patients are reassured as to the benign nature of the lesions. If treatment is desired, carbon dioxide laser vaporisation or electrosurgery may destroy the lesions. Pearly penile papules have no effect at all on sexual activity.
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Due to hair removing I got pimples over my vagina which is very painful all r popped out I wash it with boric powder and applied the ointment surfaz-sn which is very effective. But there is pain still in the area where the pimple was there. Its nearly one week.

MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
Take Cp. Amoxicillin 500mg twelve hourly one after breakfast and one after dinner for five days and For pain take tablet paracetamol 650 mg
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I am 48 years old. During intercourse my penis not get harder and withing seconds ejaculate. Please give remedy ?

FRAS, MD - Ayurveda, Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Alternative Medicine Specialist, Ernakulam
U r suffering from erectile dysfunction, at your age its fully curable, do you have diabetes, bp, cholesterol, consult me private for further details thank you
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I have lost sexual desire. Pls suggest me some female viagra.(non side effect ones)

BHMS, MD - Homeopathy
Homeopath, Gurgaon
I have lost sexual desire. Pls suggest me some female viagra.(non side effect ones)
thyroid sometimes causes this. please get the thyroid levels checked, and see if she is taking proper medication.
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1. I have premature ejaculation. I end up with ejaculating within 1 Minute of penetration. Please suggest a solution to last longer. 2. Penis Size Is also very small then I had earlier. 3. Feel very Low means sometimes I feel that there is no excitement. 4. Sometimes I feel pain in my balls while doing sex or hand job.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), MD - Alternate Medicine
Ayurveda, Karnal
1. I have premature ejaculation. I end up with ejaculating within 1 Minute of penetration. Please suggest a solution ...
Erection in males depends on various factors. It depends on your nerves ,your arteries ,muscles ,mind and emotions. When all of them work in co-ordination, you have a good erection. If anything goes out of place, you fail to get proper erection ,and once you are not able to have erection, your self esteem and confidence decreases and chances of not getting erected next time also increase .there are several ayurvedic medicines which can help you in this condition but we need to discuss more about your problem please contact in my inbox if you.
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I had sex with my girlfriend but even after foreplay, my time of sex is always really very long and the sperm does not come out so easily, even after having sex (intercourse) for a long time and I keep having intercourse with her and she says me that you take really long time period for ejaculation. But she is happy at the end with my scenario. Why such with me? Shall I make my penis thicker/broader or more lengthier than now for a lesser time ejaculation? I am 36 years old. But I think its a fully grown penis with lots of pubic hairs around. Please help!

BHMS
Homeopath, Sindhudurg
I had sex with my girlfriend but even after foreplay, my time of sex is always really very long and the sperm does no...
Its delayed ejaculation (de. Psychological causes for de can occur due to a traumatic experience. Cultural or religious taboos can give sex a negative connotation. Anxiety and depression can both suppress sexual desire, which may result in de as well. Relationship stress, poor communication, and anger can make de worse. Disappointment in sexual realities with a partner compared to sexual fantasies can also result in de. Often, men with this problem can ejaculate during masturbation but not during stimulation with a partner. Certain chemicals can affect the nerves.
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I am on doxycycline course of 14 days- twice a day. In between I had unprotected intercourse with my partner. Is there a possibility of me getting pregnant. My last menses was on 29 June.

DGO, MD, MRCOG, CCST, Accredation in Colposcopy
Gynaecologist, Kolkata
I am on doxycycline course of 14 days- twice a day.  In between I had unprotected intercourse with my partner.  Is th...
There is a small possibility. Please do a urine pregnancy test if your period fails to start by 30/07.
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My penis size is 12 cm. Is it possible to increase my penis to at least 15 cm. Please suggest me some medicines.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
My penis size is 12 cm. Is it possible to increase my penis to at least 15 cm. Please suggest me some medicines.
Most of the youth have misconceptions about penis size and sexual performance .They run after many tricks to increase the penis size! The average penis size of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) when flaccid, whereas the penis size of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect Funnily a large number of men believe their penis is small and they cannot satisfy their partner. In fact almost 80- 90 % of women are happy with the penis size of their partner. The circumference or girth (you may say width) is 9 to 10 centimetres (3.5 to 3.9 inches) in flaccid stage. It is 12 cm in erected state (4.7 inches) Men who want surgery to increase the length of their penis should try non-invasive methods like penile traction devices or extenders first, and in some cases, even try therapy to make them feel more confident about their bodies. There is no proven scientific method to increase size, girth or grip of penis although many false claims have been propagated by advertisements. The size is determined by an individual’s genetic build and length actually has no relation with sexual pleasure or satisfaction as many wrongly believe. Be happy with your individual qualities nature has bestowed on you. At present, there is no proof of any non-surgical technique that permanently increases either the thickness or length of a normal penis. Some general research has been done regarding the safety and efficacy (or lack thereof) of the ingredients of various pharmaceutical or quasi-pharmaceutical preparations, but thus far, nothing has emerged to cause mainstream medicine to adopt any of them. There are also risks inherent in some of the more invasive procedures, with negative outcomes ranging from the tearing of skin and scarring, to permanent loss of sexual function.
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Is sex is good at first night How to satisfy a girl at first sex How to blessed with twins.

CCEBDM, PG Diploma In Clinical cardiology, MBBS
General Physician, Ghaziabad
Is sex is good at first night
How to satisfy a girl at first sex
How to blessed with twins.
First night sex is traditionally and socially acceptable. Still it depends on mutual understanding of the newly wed couple. Some spend initial few days (nights) under standing each other more deeply and and knowing more abt each other and thus both preparing them selves for 1 st sex. So discus and decide. No formula to have twins. For better sex do 1.no alcohol 3. No smoking/ tobacco 4. Diet - no ghee/ butter, have mix of vegetable oils - mustard, til, ground nut, olive oil, have more green vegetables and fruits, have whole grain atta, no fried. Fast. Spicy / processed/ junk food. Less sugar, potato, rice 5. 30 mts brisk walk daily 6. Deep breathing exercise for 10 mts daily 7. Meditation daily for 10 mts. 6-8 hrs of sleep at night 8. Expose your body to sun for 15-20 mts daily after some oil massage to get vit d. 9. Take more water for medicine contact on private chat.
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What happens if male masturbates? Does he become weaker? Is there any issues for physical and mental fitness?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
What happens if male masturbates? Does he become weaker? Is there any issues for physical and mental fitness?
Masturbation is not really bad; it is the addiction to it that is bad. Not even the number of years is a problem but the frequency and compulsiveness to do it is to be considered for its ill-effects. At your age you may feel it difficult and it can become addictive if you have alone time, if you obsess about it, and if you are not into relationships. The problem with addiction to this is that you may go on to prefer masturbation to heterosexual contact, even when you are married. That obviously would be an insult to your wife and will lead to a lot of conflict. Heterosexual contact is very wholesome and the physiology is made exactly for penile and vaginal contact. You will instead enjoy a poor replica of this and not know or care for the difference. The second thing that can happen with addiction is that it will become compulsive and will have no boundaries or limits, since it can be done all by yourself, whenever, wherever, and however too. The big problem a lot of children get into is the guilt around this. A useful way to discharge the energy is to get into contact games, or exercises, or even hobbies to channelize it. Also you should not spend too much time alone, and you need to keep your mind occupied with other interesting things and a lot of socializing. Even if you are not interested in marriage, for whatever reasons, it will help you to get into a friendship with a girl and enjoy the relationship where there will be a lot of excitement when you fall in love. Right now your hormones may be very active and your physiological apparatus is primed and ready for sexual stimulation. But because of your age and even otherwise it is important to develop good control and not feed into your impulses. Keeping yourself occupied and living a healthy social life are the keys to manage your sexual drives.
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Hi I am 23 year age I have daily masturbate problem I want to cure it because of this I have sexual problem help me.

PG Diploma in Clinical Research, Diploma in Acupuncture, MBBS, College Of Physicians & Surgeons
General Physician, Mumbai
Hi I am 23 year age I have daily masturbate problem I want to cure it because of this I have sexual problem help me.
Dwelling on sexual thoughts result in such situations, be occupied all the time with good reading, learning, sports, think of carrier development &apply yourself. Makeup your mind to thwart the issue, when there is a will there is a way, you have will, be firm to be victorious. All the best.
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Dear Sir, How to stop masturbating. I have masturbating since last few years. So how to stop doing it. I need your help.

Advanced Aesthetics
Ayurveda, Gulbarga
Dear Sir, How to stop masturbating. I have masturbating since last few years. So how to stop doing it. I need your help.
During teenage, masturbation can be done once a week after that it should not be done more than 2-3 times a week till marriage. The vitality and vigour lost due to excessive masturbation cannot be regained back by medicines or food excessive masturbation is very bad for health. Excessive masturbation is the main reason for pre-ejaculation/ erection problem. Swpandosh or nightfall problem also occurs due to excessive masturbation (daily masturbation comes in the category of excessive masturbation). Excessive masturbation can cause weak body, cheeky face, weak eye sight, graying of hair, less weight, fatigue, general weakness, constipation, less appetite, non-erection, low libido, nightfall and many more. For treatment medicines are ashwagandha cap 2 times a day and tab-chitrrakadivati 2 times a day.
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Before sex or talking to my girlfriend sticky liquid comes out of pennis. My underwear gets wet badly. And it's very occourd when she touches it .Plz suggest.

Before sex or talking to my girlfriend sticky liquid comes out of pennis. My underwear gets wet badly. And it's very ...
Don't worry it is natural thing, when one excited slippery fluid discharges, actually this liquid is for make greasy the vagina before entercourse, nature provided this system for the body.
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My penis having irritation particularly during intercourse n on washing with water it pains like mild wound for last three months. I am applying boroplus which relieves for few days but now ineffective. Please suggest some medicines to cure. Thanks.

MD-Ayurveda, Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Sexologist, Haldwani
My penis having irritation particularly during intercourse n on washing with water it pains like mild wound for last ...
Hello- penis and scrotal skin is generally moisturized by the sebaceous and sweat glands in the skin. Any changes in these gland can lead to wound like patches. Apply ayurvedic oil instead of boroplus to treat your problem.
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Dear sir I have a problem. I am daily addicted to masturbation. I'm still 21. Any solution.

MD-Pharmacology, MBBS
Sexologist, Delhi
Dear sir I have a problem. I am daily addicted to masturbation. I'm still 21. Any solution.
Dear, Generally these kind of concerns are very common. Mastrubation is a healthy sexual activity. The frequency and duration is not very important and has no reason to feel bad about it. Masturbating is good and natural for both men and women. In healthy individuals, masturbation is seen as a harmless expression of sexuality. Actually, according to statistics from the U.S., reported by The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada, approximately 60 percent of men over the age of 16 and 40 percent of women over the age of 20 admit to self-stimulation over the course of 30 days. The percentages go up even higher when the time frame is extended out to 12 months, with almost 80 percent of men and 60 percent of women masturbating. According to Planned Parenthood and the State Government of Victoria?s Better Health Channel, masturbating is both physically and mentally good for you. Benefits include: ? Creates a sense of well-being. ? Enhances physical and emotional bonding with partners. ? Increases the ability to have orgasms. ? Improves relationship satisfaction. ? Improves sleep. ? Improves body image. ? Is a way to treat sexual dysfunctions. ? Can reduce stress. ? Can relieve sexual tension. ? Can relieve menstrual cramps. ? Can strengthen pelvic and anal muscles, reducing the risk for incontinence. ? Increases the release of the feel-good neurotransmitters in the brain. ? Can improve the health of the prostate. ? Can improve male immunity. ? May build resistance to yeast infections. ? Can help relieve chronic back pain. ? Can improve the body?s pain threshold. One of the best things about masturbation is that it is safe; there is no concern about sexually transmitted diseases. Masturbation is an ideal way for individuals to learn and explore their sexuality before they enter into sexual relationships. Masturbating can teach a person how they like to be touched, improving their confidence and increasing their chances of experiencing sexual pleasure with a partner. But the health benefits of masturbation extend beyond just initiating pleasure. In your case you require counseling by an expert.
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Hi my name is vijay, 32 years old, I am having retarded ejaculation. I am doing masturbation regularly like daily even. Please suggest some advice.

BHMS, DEMS
Homeopath, Pune
Hi my name is vijay, 32 years old, I am having retarded ejaculation. I am doing masturbation regularly like daily eve...
These kinds of issues can happen at any time and to any man. Causes mainly include: fatigue stress relationship issues performance anxiety alcohol consumption. 1. Do daily exercise 45 min. 2. A diet rich in fruit, veggies, whole grains, and fish, and with fewer servings of red meat and refined grains, decreases the risk for ed. 3. Take 8 hrs sleep, poor sleep patterns can be a contributing factor for erectile dysfunction4. Quit smoking. 5. Limit your alcohol. Constitutional homeopathic medicine will give you best result to gain sexual energy and treat ed. Without any side effect.
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