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Dr. Finny

Gynaecologist, Mumbai

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My wife has polysystic ovary. She is 26 years old. She has a previous history of breast cancer in her family (mother. Can she be prone to breast cancer? Does she needs to do mammography or any other test now? Due to polysistic ovary can she have pregnancy problems later? Maybe on 28.

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My wife has polysystic ovary. She is 26 years old. She has a previous history of breast cancer in her family (mother....
Due to polycystic ovary there may be complications present for pregnancy. According your information she is also overweight which is alarming. Do any thyroid test done? if not then do it and give the report. If her menstrual period is normal then no problem in pregnancy. I suggest you to plan for pregnancy as soon if possible because delay may cause complications.
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Hi Urine pregnancy test ke aleva agar Ghar par hi pregnancy test karna ho toh kaise kare?

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Hi Urine pregnancy test ke aleva  agar Ghar par hi pregnancy test karna ho toh kaise kare?
Pregnancy kit available in market are not that expensive so to invent and domestic formula for cost cutting is no brainier just have strip from chemist and should be got checked. Wish you good health.
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Baby Growth During Pregnancy - गर्भावस्था में शिशु का विकास

B.Sc - Dietitics / Nutrition, M.Sc - Dietitics / Nutrition
Dietitian/Nutritionist, Delhi
Baby Growth During Pregnancy - गर्भावस्था में शिशु का विकास

तो आप गर्भवती हो। बधाई हो! क्या आप उत्सुक नहीं हैं यह जानने के लिए कि आपका विकासशील बच्चा कितना बड़ा है, आपका बच्चा कैसा दिखता है और कब आप उसके कदम महसूस करेंगे?
आपका बच्चा कोशिकाओं के एक छोटे समूह के रूप में शुरू होता है, लेकिन नौ महीने की गर्भावस्था की प्रक्रिया के दौरान वह चेहरे की विशेषताओं, दिल की धड़कन और चलते पैरों के साथ एक अद्भुत बच्ची बन जाती है। प्रत्येक चरण में होने वाले अलग-अलग परिवर्तनों के कारण गर्भावस्था के विकास के चरणों को त्रिमितीय कहा जाता है (तीन महीने की अवधि)। जानना चाहते हैं कि उन तीन तिमाही के दौरान क्या होता है, आपका बच्चा सप्ताह से सप्ताह तक कैसे विकसित होता है?
आइए, देखते हैं कि बच्चे के विकास के दौरान क्या होता है:
सप्ताह 1:

आप वास्तव में अभी तक गर्भवती नहीं हैं। भले ही गर्भावस्था 40 हफ्तों तक हो, लेकिन आप केवल 38 सप्ताह तक अपने बच्चे को पालते है।
सप्ताह 2:
यह वह सप्ताह है जिसमें आप अंडोत्सर्ग करते हैं। आपकी अंडाशय आपके फैलोपियन ट्यूब में एक पका हुआ अंडा (डिंब) जारी करता है, जहां यह शुक्राणु की प्रतीक्षा करेगा। 
सप्ताह 3:
निषेचन के बाद, भ्रूण पोषण के लिए आपके गर्भाशय की दीवार पर चिपक जाएगा, एक प्रक्रिया जिसे आरोपण कहा जाता है। आपका बच्चा एक छोटी गेंद है, जिसे ब्लास्टोसिस्ट कहा जाता है, कई सौ कोशिकाओं से बना है जो तेज़ी से बढ़ रहे हैं।
सप्ताह 4:
आपके गर्भाशय की गहराई में, आपका बच्चा दो परतों से बना भ्रूण है, और आपके आदिम गर्भनाल का विकास हो रहा है। भ्रूण दो भागों में विभाजित होता है, एक आधा नाल बन जाता है और दूसरा आधा बढ़ना जारी रहता है।
सप्ताह 5:
भ्रूण के पास अब तीन अलग-अलग परत हैं: बाहरी एक्टोडर्म, जो तंत्रिका तंत्र, कान, आंख, आंतरिक कान और कई संयोजी ऊतकों का निर्माण करेगा; एंडोडर्म, या आंतरिक परत, जो फेफड़ों, आंतों और मूत्राशय की तरह आंतरिक अंगों में बढ़ेगा; और मध्य मेसोडर्म, जो अंततः दिल और संचार प्रणाली बना देगा।
सप्ताह 6:
इस हफ्ते, आपके बच्चे के मस्तिष्क गोलार्द्धों का निर्माण हो रहा है और मस्तिष्क तरंगों को अब रिकॉर्ड किया जा सकता है। आपके बच्चे के नाक, मुंह, और कान आकार लेने लगे हैं। आपको सुबह की बीमारी और स्पॉटिंग हो सकती है।
सप्ताह 7:
आपका बच्चा अभी भी एक छोटी पूंछ के साथ एक भ्रूण है और हाथ और पैर बना रहा है आपका गर्भाशय आकार में दोगुना हो गया है। 
सप्ताह 8:
आपके बच्चे के विकास में तेजी आ रही है। जैसे-जैसे वह बड़ा हो जाता है, उसके नाजुक चेहरे की विशेषताएं और अधिक परिष्कृत होते जा रहे हैं, उसके कान, ऊपरी होंठ, और उसकी नाक के नुकीले टिप सभी स्पष्ट रूप से दिखाई देते हैं। इस बीच, आप जन्म के पूर्व परीक्षणों के बारे में निर्णय ले सकते हैं।
सप्ताह 9:
अग्न्याशय और पित्ताशय जैसे कुछ अन्य प्रमुख अंगों के साथ, प्रजनन अंग अब बनने लगते हैं। 
सप्ताह 10:
आपके बच्चे ने विकास का सबसे महत्वपूर्ण हिस्सा समाप्त कर दिया है। 
सप्ताह 11:
इस हफ्ते, लगभग सभी अंगों के कामकाज शुरू होते हैं। 
सप्ताह 12:
आपके बच्चे की मांसपेशियों का विकस शुरू हो गया है। जब आप अपने पेट पर अपना हाथ रखते हैं, तो आपका बच्चा प्रतिक्रिया में शायद विचलित हो जाएगा क्योंकि उसकी प्रतिक्रियाएं विकसित होने लगती हैं। वह अपनी उंगलियों को खोलने और बंद करना शुरू कर देगा।
सप्ताह 13:
यह पहली तिमाही का अंतिम सप्ताह है! आपके बच्चे के पास अब अनूठे फिंगरप्रिंट हैं और लगभग 3 इंच लंबा है।
सप्ताह 14:
आप और अधिक ऊर्जा और कम मतली महसूस करते हैं।  
सप्ताह 15:
आपका बच्चा प्रकाश को अनुभव सकता है और स्वाद की कलियों को बना रहा है।
सप्ताह 16:
आपके बच्चे के नाजुक कंकाल कठोर हो रहे हैं। अगले कुछ हफ्तों में, आपका बच्चा अपने वजन को दोगुना कर देगा और अपनी लंबाई में कुछ इंच जोड़ देगा।
सप्ताह 17:
गर्भनाल मजबूत और मोटा हो रहा है।
सप्ताह 18:
अल्ट्रासाउंड पर देखने के लिए आपके बच्चे के गुप्तांग काफी विकसित होते हैं।
सप्ताह 19:
आपका बच्चा आपको सुन सकता है!
सप्ताह 20:
आप अपनी गर्भावस्था में आधे रास्ते पर पहुंच गए हैं!
सप्ताह 21:
अपने बचे को हिलता महसूस कर सकेंगे। 
सप्ताह 22:
इस हफ्ते वह अपने स्पर्श की भावना को ठीक कर रहा है।
सप्ताह 23:
सर्फैक्टेंट का उत्पादन किया जा रहा है, एक पदार्थ है जो वायु कोष को फूलने मे और फेफड़ों को पूरी तरह से विस्तारित करने में सक्षम बनाता है।
सप्ताह 24:
जब आप चलते हैं, तो आपका बच्चा गति महसूस कर सकता है।
सप्ताह 25:
आपका बच्चा कुछ वसा जोड़ने और अधिक बाल बढ़ाना शुरू कर रहा है।
सप्ताह 26:
आपके बच्चे का पहला मल त्याग बड़ी आंत में बना रहा है। मोटी, अंधेरी गंदगी को मेकोनिया कहा जाता है और यह आम तौर पर पैदा होने के तुरंत बाद उत्सर्जित होता है।
सप्ताह 27:
यदि आप एक गुदगुदी महसूस करते हैं, तो यह आपके बच्चे की हिचकी हो सकती है।
सप्ताह 28:
आपका बच्चा अपनी आँखों को खोलने और बंद करना शुरू कर देगा।
सप्ताह 29:
आपके बच्चे की मांसपेशियों और फेफड़े परिपक्व हो रहे हैं, और उसका सिर उसके विकासशील मस्तिष्क के लिए जगह बनाने के लिए बढ़ रहा है।
सप्ताह 30:
आपका बच्चा अब लगभग 3 पाउंड का हो गया है और इस बीच, मन बदलाव, भद्दापन और थकान से जूझ सकते हैं।
सप्ताह 31:
आपके बच्चे की मजबूत लातें, रात में आपको जगाए रख सकती है और आपको ब्रेक्सटन हिक्स के संकुचन भी महसूस होंगे।
सप्ताह 32:
इस समय तक उनके सभी प्रमुख अंग, फेफड़ों को छोड़कर, पूरी तरह से काम कर रहे हैं। लगभग सभी बच्चे जो इस स्तर पर या इसके बाद पैदा हुए, जीवित रहते हैं और स्वस्थ जीवन प्राप्त करते हैं।
सप्ताह 33:
क्योंकि आपके गर्भाशय में जगह कम पद रही है, गर्भावस्था में आपके बच्चे इस समय पर कम सक्रिय हो जाते हैं।
सप्ताह 34:
इस हफ्ते, सुरक्षात्मक वर्नेक्स केसोसा मोटा होना शुरू होता है।
सप्ताह 35:
इस समय, आपके बच्चे को उल्टा होना चाहिए, उसके सिर को योनि की तरफ आना चाहिए।
सप्ताह 36:
डिलीवरी की तैयारी में बच्चा आपके श्रोणि में जा सकता है।
सप्ताह 37:
नाभि गर्भनाल आपके डिलीवरी की तैयारी में, अपने बच्चे को एंटीबॉडी देने लगती है।
सप्ताह 38:
आपकी गर्भावस्था को अब पूर्णकालिक माना जाता है। बच्चे 38 और 42 सप्ताह के बीच कहीं बाहर आ जाते हैं।
सप्ताह 39:
इस समय तक, आपका बच्चा किसी भी समय बाहर आने के लिए तैयार है।
सप्ताह 40:
यदि आपने अभी तक डिलीवरी नहीं की है, तो आपका ओ.बी. आप पर अधिक बारीकी से नजर रखेगा। आपको सी सेक्शन के लिए जाना पड़ सकता है।

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Dentist, Gadchiroli
Consumption of counter pain relievers is advisable. A pain killer which reduces inflammation is highly recommendable. Some common ones are ibuprofen and aspirin.

Gestational Diabetes - 3 Associated Complications

Doctor of Medicine, DGO
Gynaecologist,
Gestational Diabetes - 3 Associated Complications

Gestational diabetes is a form of diabetes where the blood sugar levels of the body increase during pregnancy. When you are expecting, your body is more repellent to insulin so that a larger amount of glucose is manufactured for the baby’s nourishment. However, this excess blood glucose can build up within the body which causes gestational diabetes. This can lead to health problems for both the mother and the baby. At the end of the gestational period i.e. once the baby is delivered, blood sugar reduces to normal.

When are you at a risk for gestational diabetes?

  1. Gestational diabetes can also be hereditary. If a family member or a relative has diabetes, you are more likely to develop gestational diabetes.

  2. If you are overweight, you are more susceptible to developing gestational diabetes.

What causes gestational diabetes?

During pregnancy, the placenta connects your baby to the blood supply. This produces other hormones which reduce the levels of insulin. This increases the level of blood sugar in your blood. As your baby develops, your body manufactures more of such hormones which block your insulin levels leading to gestational diabetes. This usually occurs from the 20th week of your pregnancy.

Complications:

  1. Increase in Birth Weight – Extra glucose crosses through the placenta which instigates the baby’s pancreas to manufacture more insulin. This can make your baby very large. Sometimes, it becomes difficult for the baby to pass through the birth canal during childbirth as a result.

  2. Premature Birth and Respiratory Diseases – High blood sugar may increase the risk of an early labor. It may make the baby due before the 37th week of pregnancy. This also makes the baby more susceptible to respiratory disorders.

  3. High Blood Pressure – Gestational diabetes also raises your risks for high blood pressure. This can be fatal for you as well as your baby’s health.

Treatment:

  1. Follow a healthy eating schedule. Limit the amount of carbohydrates and ensure you have a healthy and balanced meal.

  2. Do light exercises regularly during pregnancy. This helps you to control your blood sugar level. Physical activities which require low levels of energy utilization such as swimming and walking will control your blood sugar level without exerting you too much.

  3. Taking insulin shots and medicine for diabetes will also control your blood sugar levels if you have a pre-existing condition.

Is there anal sex is safe? We both enjoy to do it It should be done with condom? Should I use coconut oil?

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), L.C.P.S, PhD,D.P.S.M
Sexologist, Ahmednagar
It's not harmful. If you enjoying then it's good. You can also do with condom. For relaxation you can use some lubricant oil.
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MBBS, MS
Gynaecologist, Kolkata
home cooked food during pregnancy keeps both mother and baby healthy

I get too much pain during periods and that is unbearable. please give me any suggestions . period are regular . Always but only it pains too much and it becomes difficult for me to go outside anywhere these days.

Certified IVF Specialist, MS - Obstetrics and Gynaecology, MBBS
Gynaecologist, Ghaziabad
I get too much pain during periods and that is unbearable. please give me any suggestions . period are regular . Alwa...
take healthy balanced diet. especially rich in vitamin e . do exercise regularly to strengthen your back ms. pain killers can be taken cyclically to get rid of period pain.
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What Is Ayurveda?

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurveda, Faridabad
What Is Ayurveda?

Ayurveda can be defined as a system that uses the inherent principles of nature to help maintain health in a person by keeping the individual's body, mind and spirit in perfect equilibrium with nature.

Ayurveda is a sanskrit term, made up of the words" ayus" and" veda" ayus" means life, and" veda" means knowledge, or science. The term" ayurveda" thus means" the knowledge of life" or" the science of life" according to the ancient ayurvedic scholar charaka" ayu" comprises the mind, body, senses and the soul.

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Dear sir/madam I am great great tension for my mom she entered 40 years and is suffering from frequent periods in a month he has 3 to 4 times periods in a month please tell me what is wrong with her is she ok or not?

BHMS
Homeopath, Lucknow
Dear sir/madam I am great great tension for my mom she entered 40 years and is suffering from frequent periods in a m...
Hello dear She is absolutely fine so don't worry. She is near to menopausal stage where the menstrual cycle is completely ceased but prior to complete ceastation is on and off phenomenon is going on. This is happen to every women at the age of 40to 45. Told her do morning walk or yoga. Take plenty of water. Check heamoglobin %. Take rich protein diet and iron supplements. Green vegetables fresh fruit juices. Avoid stress. God bless you
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I am unable to do EVS test because of small vaginal opening. Is it the main cause of my failure to become pregnant because of small vaginal opening.Is it difficult to enter the sperms to their destination because of small opening

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Gynaecologist, Bangalore
Pls do consult gynecologist once befor presuming things. Size is immaterial in this aspect but stil needs to be evaluated thnq stree women health care centre bangalore
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Home Remedies for Cough and Cold

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Homeopath, Sindhudurg
Home Remedies for Cough and Cold
With winter, cough and common cold are the health problems one will be suffering
And it is not advisable to depend on allopathic everytime as side-effects to those medicines cannot be neglected. Instead, try some home remedies that are good and quick enough to cure it and there are no side effects to these remedies! here are few handy tips coming straight from kitchen:
1. Gargle with hot water by adding a pinch of salt into it, it helps in curing the sore throat.
2. Keep drinking hot drinks like coffee and tea or simply luke warm water.
3. Add turmeric powder, ginger powder and a teaspoon of honey to warm milk. This not only helps in curing cough but also relieves from bodyache, cold and headache.
4. For cold, steam inhalation is the best home remedy.
5. While preparing your tea, add few tulsi leaves and crushed ginger to it along with black pepper, it is much relief for cough and cold.
6. One who is susceptible to cough and cold should consume chavanprash (it is the best ayurvedic tonic for winter) or amla murrabba as it comprises high content of vitamin c which helps one develop a strong immunity against cough and cold.
Homeopathy works really well. Taking appropriate remedies can reduce the time spent in each stage and also aids complete recovery.
Homeopathic remedies help relieve cough and cold symptoms alongside proper rest, plenty of fluids and simple nourishing food. Consult me to get rid of stubborn cough.
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Hello doctor, I am 25 years female. I have PCOD from last 5-6 yrs. I have taken medicine (3 cycles) several Times to regularise my periods. This time it has been 6 months since I got my last period. I have started taking primolut N twice day to get my periods .Is this dosage correct? Should I continue this dose for 5 days?

MBBS, MD - Obstetrtics & Gynaecology
Gynaecologist, Delhi
Hello doctor, I am 25 years female. I have PCOD from last 5-6 yrs. I have taken medicine (3 cycles) several Times to ...
you have to take something for the insulin resistance which is the basic cause of PCOD.At least 4 periods in a year are required to keep the system normal.You could be having a cyst in the ovary,get an U/S lower abdomen done and consult online.
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I have pcod problem from 1 year and my weight is increased too much. What can I do?

B.A.M.S.
Ayurveda,
I have pcod problem from 1 year and my weight is increased too much.
What can I do?
for PCOD, first and primary treatment is to loose weight. Rx. Daily exercise like morning walk or yoga Avoid sugar, potato and fatty diet 1. pill. Rajapravartini vati -1 pill twice daily 2. pill. kanchanar guggul -2 pills twice daily 3. Shiva gutika -1 pill twice daily 4. tab. Obenil (charak) - 1 tab twice daily review after 1 cycle
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Pre-Term Labour - Can There Be Complications?

MBBS, MS - Obstetrics and Gynaecology, DNB (Obstetrics and Gynecology)
Gynaecologist, Bangalore
Pre-Term Labour - Can There Be Complications?

A preterm labour is referred to a condition when the cervix opens up within 37 weeks of pregnancy. An ideal pregnancy lasts for a span of 40 weeks. If preterm labour is caused due to preterm contractions, the baby is born earlier. This results in serious health risks for the baby. At times it requires long intensive care for the baby to ensure no mental or physical damage happens in the long term.

What are the symptoms of pre-term labour?
While some women show evident signs of pre-term labour, some women present symptoms that are more subtle. Some unmistakable symptoms of pre-term labour include regular contractions, sense of tightness in the lower abdomen, vaginal discharge, diarrhoea, constant backache, bleeding from the vagina, watery discharge from the vagina, pain in the abdomen and abdominal cramps. One or more of these symptoms should be immediately reported to the doctor to negate the chances of any miscarriages or serious complications.

What are the risk factors?
While there are no proven risk factors of preterm labour, lots of factors have been tagged with a pre-term labour. Some of the notable ones include:

  1. Little pre-natal care
  2. Premature birth in previous pregnancies
  3. Giving birth to more than one baby at a time. This is especially applicable while giving birth to a triplet.
  4. A stressful event such as a personal loss or events related to extreme emotions
  5. Bleeding from the vagina during pregnancy
  6. Any infection of the genital tract
  7. Any complications related to the placenta, uterus and cervix
  8. Any birth defect related to the vagina
  9. Chronic health conditions such as diabetes or high blood pressure
  10. Putting on weight more than the recommended level
  11. An excess of amniotic fluid
  12. Consumption of illicit drugs or smoking at a heavy rate
  13. The shorter length of the cervix than the normal one

What are the complications involved?
Pre-term labour cannot be stopped with any medical procedures. If pre-term labour is caused due to smoking or an infection, the same can be addressed. Any pre-term labour that eventually leads to giving birth can confront with complications such as low weight, problems related to the vision of the baby, behavioural problems and learning disabilities.

Diagnosis and tests:
A doctor will closely monitor the symptoms a woman is facing. In the case of regular contraction, a close look at the cervix helps a doctor to decide the condition of a patient. To be assured a doctor might recommend a full pelvic exam, ultrasound test, uterine monitoring, and maturity of amniocentesis. A test of the vaginal secretion further gives the doctor enough evidence about the possibility of a pre-term labour. If you wish to discuss about any specific problem, you can consult a Gynaecologist.

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Hi I'm 25yr old married women. How to calculate the ovulation time to get pregnant easy nd faster? or wt to do to get pregnant faster?

MD - Obstetrtics & Gynaecology, FCPS, DGO, Diploma of the Faculty of Family Planning (DFFP)
Gynaecologist, Mumbai
Hi I'm 25yr old married women.
How to calculate the ovulation time to get pregnant easy nd faster?
or wt to do to get...
Ovulation time is 14 days prior to next expected period, means in woman having regular 28 days cycle around 14 days after last period. Intercourse around this time gives better chance of pregnancy. Only after waiting for 1 to 2 years if you are not pregnant meet gynaecologist. Or you may go for non-invasive tests earlier like semen routine of husband and serial ultrasonography of your for ovulation.
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My girl friend is 23 Years old. Her periods happens in 22 days, and occurs for 3 days. When I kiss her her vagina does not get wet. Her figure is sexy, 34-30-34, does these phenomenon are normal?

MD - Alternate Medicine, PGDIP.IN GERIATRIC CARE, Post Graduate Diploma in Holistic Healthcare
Ayurveda, Balasore
My girl friend is 23 Years old. Her periods happens in 22 days, and occurs for 3 days. When I kiss her her vagina doe...
Hi, sexual arouse depends upon the mind body orgasm power. Your partner is well and fit, try to kiss her during her ovulation period and fertile period where you can see all kinds of signs and symptoms. Sexual activities depend upon your mood not on cycle bleeding. Ok.
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Significance of Sexual Health and Mental Health

MS sexuality, M.Phil Clinical Psychology, PhD (behaviour modification), Certified in Treatment of Resistant Depression
Sexologist, Hyderabad
Significance of Sexual Health and Mental Health

Does a struggle with mental illness mean losing one’s cherished sexuality? No, it certainly doesn’t. But many people struggle far more than necessary because they don’t have the information and support they need to address the challenges that can arise around sex and mental well-being.

Sex is a matter of mind

We often think of sex as something our bodies are doing, but a lot of our sex life takes place in our brains. It’s important to realize that, for all genders, our thoughts and feelings play a vital role in getting us turned on and keeping us that way.

Anxiety or depression can strongly affect arousal and can definitely ruin the mood sometimes. Anxiety and other related mental health struggles can make it hard to be relaxed enough to have or enjoy sex, overshadowing it with a host of worries or intrusive distractions. When we are very unwell and struggling just to function, sex is rarely at the top of our mind.

The struggle with mental illness in a variety of forms can hurt a person’s self-esteem and make them feel unworthy of sexual attention. For example, a person may have an unrealistic view of their own body and may actively seek to deny or discipline the body as a way of coping. In these cases, it’s important to be critical of the beauty norms we are shown by the media, step away from the practice of measuring or defining ourselves, and to seek to rediscover our love and appreciation for our bodies and our sexual selves.

Substance use may put limitations or restrictions upon one’s sexual interest. Some drugs can affect your brain in ways that make you less able to feel pleasure from sex for periods of time after their use.

Substance use can be a problem when it leads to sexual behaviours one may not feel proud of. Under the influence of drugs, you may do things that you regret, such as having sex with someone you wouldn’t have while sober, or doing things you normally might be uncomfortable with; such as being filmed or photographed during sex, or having sex in public spaces. These personal-boundary transgressions can lead to shame and loss of self-esteem and cause conflict in relationships.

Additionally, addiction or mental health problems like mania may be associated with intentionally seeking risky situations such as having unprotected sex with strangers or seeking ever escalating levels of violence, humiliation, and bodily harm (both in real life and in the pornography one is consuming). This can impact a person’s ability to find interest in having sex with their steady partner, because the sought-after thrill or risk is no longer present.

When you become an ally to your partner and deepen your communication, your sex life is certain to benefit. Great sex is often based on great connection, and by working on your communication you are nurturing that connection.

we are all entitled to knowledge about our sexuality and that good scientific knowledge about sex is necessary for us to be able to make informed sexual choices. By educating ourselves, whether we are young or old, we can make sex better for everyone.

We all have a right to enjoy and appreciate our sexuality. Do your best to not let mental illness steal that away from you and the ones you love!

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I am 38 married since 10 year & had 2 miscarriage & infant death. Recent miscarriage was 3 months before. I have undergone APLA test last year now triquilar tab taken foe 2 months. Can I try for pregnancy or further tests required for rubella, chic, TORCH. Please help me. Thanks

MBBS, MS - Obstetrics and Gynaecology
Gynaecologist, Delhi
I am 38 married since 10 year & had 2 miscarriage & infant death. Recent miscarriage was 3 months before. I have unde...
Before planning pregnancy you &your husband should undergo chromosomal analysis. Youshould also meet a genetic specialist, meet an obstetrician she will advise a battery of tests recommended for repeated pregnancy loss. Torch infection does not cause repeated pregnancy loss.
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Yesterday I know my wife is pregnant. She has thyroid while pregnant with our first baby in 2014. Last periods happened on 3rd August. What precaution and diet she take.

MBBS, MS - Obstetrics & Gynecology, Fellowship in Infertility (IVF Specialist)
Gynaecologist, Aurangabad
Yesterday I know my wife is pregnant. She has thyroid while pregnant with our first baby in 2014. Last periods happen...
Hi Manish, congratulations! She should take proper balance diet, try to avoid seafood, cabbage, kale. She should avoid pineapple and papaya. Avoid sex, lifting heavy weight. She can have balance diet particularly protein rich diet . Please you should had control levels of thyroid.
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