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Dr. Ms. Anubha Verma

Psychologist, Delhi

Dr. Ms. Anubha Verma Psychologist, Delhi
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Dr. Ms. Anubha Verma is a trusted Psychologist in Dwarka, Delhi. You can meet Dr. Ms. Anubha Verma personally at Anubha Verma Counseling Psychologist in Dwarka, Delhi. Book an appointment online with Dr. Ms. Anubha Verma on Lybrate.com.

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Hi, out of anxiety I wank and this practice is going on for eon and now I am finding that I am not getting strong erection, kindly suggest me what should I do. Off late I have started PC exercise and I am doing it as and when I get time.

BAMS, MD Ayurveda
Sexologist, Lonavala
Hi, out of anxiety I wank and this practice is going on for eon and now I am finding that I am not getting strong ere...
One of the simplest home remedies Saffron is a mild aphrodisiac 1. Soak 10 almonds in water overnight 2. Peel off the skin and crush them the next morning 3. Take 1 cup hot cow's milk 4. Add the crushed almonds 5. Add a pinch of ginger powder 6. Add a pinch of cardamom powder 7. Add a pinch of saffron 8. Mix well 9. Drink this every morning Causes: • Anxiety • Incorrect diet • Unhealthy lifestyle this is very helpful.
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I m facing anxiety issues since once I took cannabis I have not taken it from that day but my head becomes high and negative thoughts come around. When I take Clonazepam it helps me keeping my mind calm please help doc what medicine shall I take I have been facing this for last 5 months.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
I m facing anxiety issues since once I took cannabis I have not taken it from that day but my head becomes high and n...
Dear , you must be able to distinguish between mental disease and mental disorder. Your problem is a mental disorder. Not a mental disease. These mental disorders are usually treated with a combination of medicines and other means like awareness, meditation, psychotherapy techniques, life style changes etc. I think two or three counseling sessions and psycho therapy techniques should solve your problem.
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My wife was suffering from depression . She is taking pills prescribed by psychiatrist for last 04 months and has adviced to continue for 12 months. Tablets prescribed are lametac 100, what are side affects and whether after completing the course she will be alright as of now there seems to be no problem she happy,energetic caring out whole household work.

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Delhi
Side effects after a particular time for lamotriagene are very rare. But one can not give guarantee that relapse will never occur as mental illness are often recurrent and stress can precipitate second episode.
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Thankyou so much DR, I am facing with continuous head ache since 2 weeks. please tell me any medicine Sir I am feel depressed too.

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
Thankyou so much DR, I am facing with continuous head ache since 2 weeks. please tell me any medicine Sir I am feel d...
At you age probably you are studying a lot, or are under stress to perform well in the exams or moving around too much in the hot sun. Actually there are a number of reasons which can cause headache. Since you are having headache for last 2 weeks, it would be better for you to go a doctor who will check your all other parameters and give you appropriate medicine. Please do not take medicines on your own, it is harmful. There is a lot of difference between feeling sad and feeling depressed" depression" is a very intense feeling and a depressed person becomes almost non-functional, inactive and many times suicidal. So please be aware of your real feelings. Are you feeling sad and low or are you feeling depressed? don't allow temporary set backs to discourage you. You are very young. Try to learn new skills, pursue studies of your interests. Have a realistic dream and make a concrete plan to achieve that dream. Please remember, in this world only one person can help you all the time and that person is yourself. Have faith in yourself. Take care.
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My mind is diverting on things other than study. Give me a suggestion that will help me to concentrate on study.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
I can give you study tips .10 Study Tips to Improve Your Learning Study Tip 1: Underlining Underlining is one of the simplest and best known study tips. It’s easy to highlight the most significant parts of what you’re reading. One key sentence per paragraph and a few important phrases here and there. You can only retain a certain amount so it’s best to retain the most important information. Study Tip 2: Make your own note and taking notes is one of the most widespread study skills out there. Essentially the aim of note-taking is to summarise lectures or articles in your own words so you can easily remember the ideas. Study Tip 3: Mind mapping A good Mind map can save you many hours of study and further consolidate your knowledge for your exams. Mind Maps are an extremely versatile tools. They can be used for brainstorming, outlining essays or study topics and for general exam preparation, ExamTime offers the ability to create Mind Maps quickly and easily which makes them the ideal tool when it comes to exams. Study Tip 4: Flash cards:- Using these are a particularly effective method of learning when trying to assimilate different facts, dates, formulas or vocabulary. Subjects such as History, Physics, Maths, Chemistry, Geography or any language are made much easier if you incorporate Flashcards in to your study. Study Tip 5: Case Studies Sometimes it can be difficult to grasp the implications of some theories. This is where studying case studies can be a big help. Case studies can help you visualise a theory and place it in a more familiar and realistic context. This is especially useful in business or law subjects. Study Tip 6: Quizzes are an excellent way to review study notes in the weeks and days before an exam. Quizzes can show where your strengths and weaknesses are, so it allows you to focus your efforts more precisely. Moreover, if you share your Study Quiz with your classmates and test each other as much as possible you can discover even more details and areas you may have overlooked. So before any exam, make sure you create and share a bunch of different Quizzes with your Friends. Study Tip 7: Brainstorming This is another study technique that is ideal for studying with friends and/or classmates. Brainstorming is a great way to expand every possible idea out of any topic. Just get a bunch of friends together and shoot the breeze, there are no wrong answers when brainstorming – just talk and capture the ideas, you can review afterward. Study Tip 8: Mnemonic Rules Mnemonics are especially useful when memorising lists and sets. Mnemonics rules basically work by associating certain concepts with other concepts that are more familiar to us. There are many different ways to make mnemonics and these can be individual to the person. Study Tip 9: ORGANISE your study One of the most effective study skills is also one of the most often overlooked; this is organising your study. Creating a TIME TABLE gives you goals and a time in which to achieve them. Having a study timetable as you study is greatly motivational Study Tip 10: Drawing Many people find it easier to recall images rather than text that is why they are better able to memorise concepts if they associate them with pictures or drawings. If you find answer helpful please click on “helpful” tab for knowing my efforts are useful
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Actually I used masturbate regularly. As I am very much attracted towards sex. Whenever I see a girl or lady only two things come in my mind her breast and bumps and starts looking at her vaginal area and after that I have to masturbate. Please help me to get out of it. I tried a lot to indulge in some other activities but nothing is working.

MBBS, MD Psychiatry, DNB Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Nagpur
Actually I used masturbate regularly. As I am very much attracted towards sex. Whenever I see a girl or lady only two...
Since you admit you are obsessed with sexual thoughts on seeing females and have to compulsively masturbate after that to relieve the anxiety, it suggests that you have a obsessive compulsive symptoms. You have also attempted controlling them by diverting yourself to other activities but that failed. So I would suggest you to seek assistance with medicines and counseling from a psychiatrist. Consult online for further queries and help.
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One of my known has started loving me immensely. Even a thought of separation sends him into depression. The thought makes him sad. Even after being convinced or clarified many times. He cannot recover with it. He has developed a sort of addiction. Fr ez if he could not talk. Head ache starts. He finds no point in living more. Bcoz he cannot get me. What shall I do on my part to heal my friend. Shall I lessen contact wid him. Or what? because even lessening the contact can traumatize him more. Wt to do?

BDS, Certification in hypnotherapy, Certification in N.L.P, Certification in Gene and behavior, Psychology at Work
Psychologist, Gurgaon
One of my known has started loving me immensely. Even a thought of separation sends him into depression. The thought ...
You should counsel him that one cannot enjoy anything, if one is obsessed with the outcome, which are funnily in not in anyone's hand!! Explain him that if relationship is giving more pain than pleasure , then how one is perceiving it should be re-looked into. Tell him on the contrary the addiction, insecurity may spoil the relationship, Can seek a professional counselor/hypnotist s help too.
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I am a non vegetarian, always eating on time. No addiction to alcohol and cigarettes, occasionally drinks beer.

L L. B..,, M.Sc psychy,, N L P, P.G.D.G.C, M.S psychotherapy,, M.A child care, M A, clinical psy, M.A,social psychiatry,, M.Phil., psychology., Ph.D .,psychology
Psychologist, Vijayawada
I am a non vegetarian, always eating on time. No addiction to alcohol and cigarettes, occasionally drinks beer.
Take non vegetarian regularly no problem. Better to keep away cigarettes. Occasional beer will not effect on you. So better to continue your attitudes. Nothing will happen. Eating on time is a good habit. You have a very good habits. Do not worry nothing will happen. You are enjoying your life as per your wish. Continue with out any hesitation. Enjoy hyderabadi biryani. Chicken kebabs happily. Do not think anything. Share your good feelings with your friends and family members. Be friendly and be sociable. Be enjoy every movement of life. Ok best of luck.
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Sir this is Appalanaidu I can't stop smoking can you give any answer regarding how I reduce the smoking?

DHMS (Hons.)
Homeopath, Patna
Hello, smoking is injurious for health, u, should know, why? **it, blocks & damages your air pipe, including lungs. Causing lungs cancer, copd, diminishing its capacity to retain oxygen. * it, increases cholesterol level, threatening to heart. Not only that, people around u, will be sufferer of the same hazards for no fault of their own, u, being the victim of breathing disorder, asthma, gastric disorder, diseases of eyes, palpitation of heart with anaemia, lack of concentration. Irritation with anguish temperament. Loss of weight, insomnia, will ruin yours as well as your spouse & children's'future. * it's advisable to get rid of this killing agent, as soon as possible for the betterment of d entire family, nears & dears, around you * tk, plenty of water free from contaminants to eliminate toxins &'regulate your metabolism to absorb protein, vitamins, minerals, energy & other important substance essential to upkeep, repair & energise the body. * don't skip your meal, rather, it should b easily digestible on time. * go for meditation to reduce your stress and to inhale plenty of oxygen to restore the flexibility of lungs to increase its tidal volume, nourishing the whole body of yours including heart and brain. * tk, apples, carrots, cheese, almonds, walnuts, spinach, papaya, banana, milk, fish, chicken soup. * tk homoeo medicine, gentle. & rapid in action with no adverse effect, thereof. @ nux vom 30-6 pills, thrice a day. @ caladeum 20-6 pills, thrice a day. * avoid, caffiene, alcohol, junk-food, alcohol. Stay fit & fine, your family is awaiting your arrival. Your feedback matters to me for your further, follow up, please.
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My cousin completed degree and married, her problems are below 1) she cannot concentrate at one point 2) Very fearistic 3) she cannot mingle unknown people easily 4) she cannot think other person thinking or direction, needs, 5) what ever she feels, she will do, 6) if she is uncomfortable she will not adjust means inside one out side one she will not act for sack of others 7) for acting / smiling she will feel very uncomfortable, if it is natural she will do, for the sack of others she will not do, example : if some body comes to our house will smile, but her father and mother comes only she will smile not others 8) she will prefer listen and talk instead of actions, doing of action she will feel irritate, 9) for thinking anything, she will feel uncomfortable in fact she cannot do, she always wants without doing anything everything has to come, in other way lazyness is more in short, she cannot imagine about things or persons, and fearastic, action less, dont want to do any thing, if any functions or marriage are going on in that they will not mingle with anybody and they will feel very uncomfortable. Please advice what is this disease and what are the curing procedure Regards,

M.Phil clinical Psychology, MS Psychotherapy and Counseling, PGDGC, MSc Psychology
Psychologist, Chennai
there are possibilities that she is just an introvert or she may have a personality problem. there are also the possibilities that her IQ is less or she has autism spectrum disorder, Meet a clinical psychologist at the earliest and have a evaluation done. if you are in chennai call me on +919444112608 take an appointment and come and meet me in my clinic
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My cousin hrt beat is beating fast. All reports are normal. She is preparing for her exam. But she say she do not take any tension about exam. But her hrt is beating fast then normal. please suggest me.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
My cousin hrt beat is beating fast. All reports are normal. She is preparing for her exam. But she say she do not tak...
Hi, If you are constantly worrying, feeling tense, or thinking negative or catastrophic things will happen, you may be struggling with anxiety. Although the exact causes of anxiety are uncertain, people who suffer from this condition often share risk factors, such as having a family member who has anxiety, experiencing trauma, being female, or having other forms of mental illness. Fortunately, the right combination of medications, cognitive approaches, and lifestyle changes can help you to reduce the symptoms and overcome anxiety. Sleep and anxiety have a complex chicken-or-the-egg relationship. A lack of sleep can cause anxiety, and anxiety can result in sleep disturbance. To gain control of your anxiety, focus on getting at least seven hours of sleep each night. Use the following tips to get adequate shut-eye: Allow your body to adjust to sleeping on a regular schedule. Turn off electronics 30 minutes prior to bed. Make your bed room environment comfortable and strictly for sleeping. Exercise. Develop a winding down ritual to follow nightly. Use aromatherapy like lavender scents to promote relaxation. Quit smoking (nicotine can affect sleep). In addition to maintaining overall physical health, exercise can have a profound impact on mental well-being. Physical activity generates endorphins, which are the body's feel-good chemicals. As a result, engaging in exercise regularly can relieve stress and distract you from worries. Doctors suggest getting approximately 30 minutes of exercise each day of the week. Walk, jog, row, or bike — it's up to you. Just choose an activity that you will commit to. Eat a balanced diet. You may not understand the connection between what you eat and how you feel, but it's definitely there. Certain foods and beverages like refined sugar or caffeine, may worsen anxiety. Instead, drink plenty of water and eat healthy meals with a balance of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, low-fat dairy, and lean protein. There are heaps of research connecting caffeine to increased anxiety. Caffeine has been found to increase anxiety, depression, and hostility. Avoid caffeine in soda, coffee and tea (go for decaf), and even chocolate. You need to practice deep breathing exercise: Find a quiet space where you can be alone with no distractions. Close the door, if possible. As you get used to this breathing exercise, you may be able to close out distractions and perform the exercise around others. Sit upright, with your back straight. You can sit in a chair, or sit on the floor with your legs crossed, whatever feels more natural. You can lie down if you must. Keep in mind, however, that sitting upright allows your lungs to fill to maximum capacity, which is best when practicing deep breathing Place your arms on the arms of a chair or resting on your thighs. This removes the burden from your shoulders and aids in relaxation. For a count of four seconds, breathe deeply through your nose. Your lower belly should expand with the breath. For one to two seconds, simply hold the breath inside your chest. Now, exhale all of the air out of your lungs through your mouth. You should hear a" whoosh" sound as it leaves your mouth. Notice your belly deflating as you release the breath. To avoid hyperventilating, pause for a few seconds before taking a new breath. Do this entire sequence again for about five minutes. About six to eight cycles of breathing per minutes is considered effective at relieving anxiety. Nonetheless, you should find your own natural breathing rhythm that makes you comfortable. Practice deep breathing at least twice a day for five minutes each session. Note that deep breathing should not be saved for only when you are experiencing anxiety. Practice this exercise daily to manage the symptoms of anxiety and fend off stress.
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I am feeling some pain in mind, loosemotion, and fever on my body. what should I do for better health?

Master of Clinical Psychology, Post Graduate Diploma in Psychological Counselling
Psychologist, Pune
I am feeling some pain in mind, loosemotion, and fever on my body. what should I do for better health?
Proper diet, sufficient sleep and regular exercise is a key to better health. Yoga and pranayam helps a lot to release psychological as well as physical stress.
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I am 20 years old. I can not concentrate on study. I am having sweating from my palm and foot from my childhood. I feel tired of doing little work. I have checked my haemoglobin and blood transfusion had occurred but hb is 10.5 so what is the problem. Can you suggest something. Thank you.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
YOu have anemia and you need to treat it by iron medication like Hemsi capsule and sweating is a genetic nature and if sever there are many treatments including surgery
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I am 21 yr. I am smoking since 3 years and I want to quit. I smoke mostly at night during 9.00 clock. I want quit but as the time come I can not resist and feel like urge it. What should I do?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate-user, Welcome to Lybrate. Tobacco is addictive. Cigarette also contains 4000+ carcinogenic chemicals other than nicotine. Nicotine and other chemicals can cause cancer of different types and areas. Throat cancer, mouth cancer, lung cancer, stomach cancer and brain problems can result. Over and above smoking may also increase the risk factor of heart attack and brain stroke. Please quit smoking. The best method is to leave it and continue with your will power. There are other methods like Nicotine Replacement therapy and pharmacotherapy combined. If you’re ready to stop smoking and willing to get the support you need, you can recover from nicotine addiction and abuse abuse—no matter how bad the addiction or how powerless you feel. The first step in treating nicotine addiction is accepting that you have a problem. Confronting an addiction and accepting responsibility for your actions isn’t easy. But it’s a necessary step on the road to treatment and recovery. You should then consult a psychiatrist / psychologist who fill follow this treatment. 1. Detoxification using medicines. 2. Behavior modification with the help of therapies. 3. Counseling. 4. Medication to sustain and 5. Long term support. These given steps are essential for any addict to get effectively rid of smoking. Therefore, you need to stick to the treatment plan and cooperate with your psychiatrist / psychologist. Mind power building therapy, motivation therapy etc should help you doing so. I suggest you to consult a psychologist or de addiction therapist. Take care.
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Hello. I am feeling inferiority complex first I thought it is my lack of confidence but now I realise that it is my inferiority complex make my career in dangerous situation

Post Graduate DIploma in Acupuncture, Bachelor of Naturopathy & Yogic Sciences (BNYS)
Alternative Medicine Specialist, Coimbatore
Every individual has his/her own strength and capability to do different things in different fields. Try to find out your strength and work on it. Its a good thing that you have started to analyse yourself and found out your problem. Now its time to sort it out. Start fixing a small goals which u can achieve easily. Then slowly raise up your goals to different level. Comparing ourselves with others can not solve the problems. People with whom you are comparing will also have problems which are invisible to you. So just forget about others and move forward in your own way. First our ambition should be to achieve happiness. Then you can win anything you want. All the best.
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My dad expired last year in a road accident. It was impossible to bear with the loss but I am controlling myself. But my mother is in a very bad state. She is depressed and has got bp problems. Sometimes its 200. Please help.

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
My dad expired last year in a road accident. It was impossible to bear with the loss but I am controlling myself. But...
Dear lybrate user, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Losing your dad at this age and in a road accident must have been very traumatic for you. You and your mother are going through a very difficult phase in your life. Your dad's tragic and sudden death has affected you both, but in different ways. There is loss support and sudden increase in the responsibilities for you both. This might be causing a huge burden on you both and you might be feeling insecure and lost. At this difficult time when you are emotionally stressed out, it will be difficult for you to live life normally. You may need some more time to come out of this grief. It is advisable to share your sad feelings with each other and/or with your respective friends and relatives. You both need to talk about your pain with someone. It will relieve you of some pain and sadness. I hope your mother is on medication for bp. I would suggest that you both take an appointment with a counsellor, who will help you in this difficult situation so that eventually you both can move on with life. Take care.
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I'm in depression from last 10 days n not able to concentrate in work n not happy to do anything. Please help me.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), PGCRCDM, PDCR, MBA
Ayurveda, Ghaziabad
I'm in depression from last 10 days n not able to concentrate in work n not happy to do anything. Please help me.
Please do meditation and join any center near you like art of living etc, shirodhara will also help you, in ayurveda there are good safe solutions to control depression, try for ashwgandha, if problem not resolved after few days then consult.
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Stress is GOOD...Its true!!!

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Mumbai
Stress is GOOD...Its true!!!
When we are worried or overly stressed we can’t do our best. We need to be proactive and live life with ease and joy. Our perceptions, attitudes, choices and responses should be within our control.

There is a circle of control within which you are comfortable. For example if you are afraid of speaking in public, you may shy away from such an activity or you may on the other hand, choose to focus on what is under your control by working hard on practicing that speech with friends, family and supportive people in order to overcome your fear.

When issues outside the circle of our control begin to take prominence they are likely to cause hurt and disturbance. There are many ways to feel strong so that you are not always caught off-guard or unprepared for situations.



Not all stress is bad

We sometimes hear people say ‘I work better under pressure’ or ‘I thrive on competition’. There are others who endlessly crib about work pressure, increasing population, mounting prices, water shortage, etc. What we need is a balance. We need to feel stretched, but not so far that we might snap. Feeling bad or worrying about something does not fix the problem but adds to your feeling of helplessness. Being stressed is by itself, usually a cause for further stress.

The attitude of the person and the way they approach the situation makes all the difference. One person’s challenge may well be another’s way of life



Some stress is normal and even useful

A certain amount of stress is essential for normal health. Some stress is definitely required to stimulate us to do day-to-day tasks. Some levels of stress are beneficial for higher productivity and efficiency. A student may be nervous about studying for a competitive exam, but this does not automatically mean that it will cause him/her to perform poorly. The child may just become more conscientious with revision
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Unable to cope with my father's death due to cancer. Always wishing he were here. Not getting enough family support. My sister is schizophrenic. Family financial problems. What to do?

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Unable to cope with my father's death due to cancer. Always wishing he were here. Not getting enough family support. ...
In a situational depression like this you need to achieve more mind control. Yoga and meditation are good. Also read or listen to music if you like it. And divert your mind by talking to good friend or relatives. Is your sleep deprived? you need constant support. Ask with all your details. Have you tested thyroid any time? if too much depressed some medicines will help for a short time.
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I am 46 years old male. I have Body dysmorphic disorder from last 3 months. Please help me.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am 46 years old male. I have Body dysmorphic disorder from last 3 months. Please help me.
You need to work with a counselor and a doctor in tandem for best results. The treatment will result in success depending on whether you are willing and are trusting of the other persons involved in the treatment. Depending on what you obsess about, the person who guides you through the process and his/her definition and expertise to say if something is a deformity or not has to be accepted with honesty. The process is open to you challenging the veracity of the other person?s judgment and if well supported by reason you must learn to accept that as the truth and the final truth. This may not happen overnight but given sufficient time to know and build confidence that the therapist is not there just to please you and say anything just to convince you but is being frank and fair, will take time to appropriate. If you are a spiritual person it really helps to know that you are made in ?God?s image and likeness?, and that while we are all different, we are unique and spectacular in so many ways. Unfortunately this blessing of being in His image is flawed in humans for various reasons and so we are naturally oriented to emphasizing the defects to the negation of all other positive assets! This is exactly the problem with dysmorphic disorder: we can focus only on some perceived dissonance in our make-up and will hold steadfastly to it even against any or all evidence! However much you try to reset it, you will still not be satisfied. But if you trust someone to say the truth and are willing to believe in that person, you will be free of this disorder. You are a spark of the divine, and just as the drop is the ocean and the ocean is the drop, so are you divine in as much as the divine is you.
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